"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl likes me, I dont like her

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So I go to this saturday school, and there's two main classes. One class with most of the girls who I'm interested in, and my class. With 3 of us :( One little girl, me and this girl who it seems really likes me.

Problem is I don't like her. She's funny etc, but i'm not actually interested in her and her friends say she is interested in me. Now I wasn't too worried about this until she asked me out to town with her after the saturday school. Now i had a real excuse that i was busy, but tbh i don't feel like going out with her or anything. Being simple friends would be fine but thats about it.

I'm not sure if I should just ignore her and not talk to her to make her go away, or if I should specifically say something.

Any ideas on how to get her off me? (Sounds like a stupid question lol! But its bugging me).


Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Shocker

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start acting AFC
 
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i had this problem once.
When her friends told me that she liked me i simply told them that i wasnt interested in her.
problem solved=]
 
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omg lol so simple. her friends did tell me that... i was like ye i thought she did - and left it there (bad move on my part). the subject is bound to come up sometime soon and ill just clearly say, "i'm not interested in her"
thanks - such an easy idea :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LJBF her and use her as a pivot or as social proof.
 
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