"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl likes all my instagram photos, does that mean anything?

Imdonswanson

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This happened to me a few months ago and I'd like to get a general opinion on the matter.

Some girl who I have on instagram would like all my pictures, all! And one day her bf direct messages me and tells me to fvck off and delete his girl, the funny thing is I never paid attention to her like that. She's the type to constantly post selfies and to me, I don't like feeding a woman's obviously overly inflated ego.

Is there some correlation between liking all your photos and attraction? Or is it just nothing. I just view it like its no big deal.

My bad if it sounds like some high school nonsense.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wishyo

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If you like her, ask her out. That’s the easiest way to find out. I sense a lot of drama coming as she has bf who cares to even message you so he will probably fvck your head if that chick will decide to break with him and date you. I mean a chick who goes around instagram liking ALL pictures of some dude… it is messed up.
If you don’t have any deep feelings about her, just avoid her or even better indeed delete her or tell her you date someone and not interested.
 

Poop1337

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Make a move if you want her it might mean something.
 

Imdonswanson

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Thanks for the input, I always wondered what it means when a girl likes your many of your photos it's either no big deal she might very well just like everyone else's photo or it might mean something.

And with this girl, I'm not too sure I'd like to pursue anything with her, she's one of those girls who knows they are good looking and let it go to her head.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No.Danny

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..... this can't be a serious thread
 
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