"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl likes all my instagram photos, does that mean anything?

Imdonswanson

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This happened to me a few months ago and I'd like to get a general opinion on the matter.

Some girl who I have on instagram would like all my pictures, all! And one day her bf direct messages me and tells me to fvck off and delete his girl, the funny thing is I never paid attention to her like that. She's the type to constantly post selfies and to me, I don't like feeding a woman's obviously overly inflated ego.

Is there some correlation between liking all your photos and attraction? Or is it just nothing. I just view it like its no big deal.

My bad if it sounds like some high school nonsense.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wishyo

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If you like her, ask her out. That’s the easiest way to find out. I sense a lot of drama coming as she has bf who cares to even message you so he will probably fvck your head if that chick will decide to break with him and date you. I mean a chick who goes around instagram liking ALL pictures of some dude… it is messed up.
If you don’t have any deep feelings about her, just avoid her or even better indeed delete her or tell her you date someone and not interested.
 

Poop1337

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Make a move if you want her it might mean something.
 

Imdonswanson

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Thanks for the input, I always wondered what it means when a girl likes your many of your photos it's either no big deal she might very well just like everyone else's photo or it might mean something.

And with this girl, I'm not too sure I'd like to pursue anything with her, she's one of those girls who knows they are good looking and let it go to her head.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No.Danny

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..... this can't be a serious thread
 
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