"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girl LBJF's me and .....

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Dave111

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girl that I fancied from work, tells me constantly that she only see's me as a friend, which after a while I'm saying to myself, if I'm only a friend to you, why the need to constantly tell everyone that you meet????

anyway, she keeps texting me to see what I'm up to and just txt me there saying

"Woo Hoo, worked out another tune on guitar (She's learning to play the damn thing) to show you, so proud hope uni work is going ok, will see you soon, love you x x"

To me this chick is the ultimate attention seeker I've ever met, and my interest in her is starting to wayne big time. I wont be texting her back,

Just wanting to know any opinions on this girl and if you share the same that I do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've tried this once... After reading somewhere,

This girl goes on talking about her life as if she would talk to a girlfriend..

I put my index finger on her lips, and went "Tell this to your gf, I am not one."

And in that instant, luckily for me, a friend was passing by, so I turned to him to have a bs chat...

Worked... damn well...

She came back with a nice topic, on which I would want to continue.

And I agree, cut her off..

Distance her..

What do you think would happen if she saw you with another chick?:eek:
 
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Reto

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Yeah. Cut her off. It may create some attraction/IL...

Does she have a BF?

You're her susbstitute BF until she finds one. With no benefits.

Do you get anything out of the relationship/friendship? If not, get rid of her...
 
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