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What do you guys think?

My g/f of about a week now hooked up with one of her girl friends. Its not a big deal in my books, but i'm curious to know what you guys have done in this type of situation.

I know what i'm going to say and how i'm going to play it off. This relationship should be fun, but serious at the same time. Exclusive, but still being able to have a good time. The course of relationships is formed right from the start, I want to give her freedom, but not too much. I dont want her to take a mile, when i give her an inch.

So what are your thoughts?
 

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I don't know why you're so worried about having a serious relationship. I'd take what I can get out of this one, and if she chooses a chick over you... walk away baby! I'd give you better advice, but I gotta take off right now.
 

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99% of all girl on girl kisses are not by lesbians but by straight women with low self esteem trying to get attention from men. Are you sure this was not the case?
 

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Originally posted by Dapper Swindler
99% of all girl on girl kisses are not by lesbians but by straight women with low self esteem trying to get attention from men. Are you sure this was not the case?
I duno i had a "Bi" girlfriend, and she made out with this ugly ***** right in front of me withotu asking or anything, and i saw it as a major sign of disrespect, regardless if girl kissing is "hot".
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
I duno i had a "Bi" girlfriend, and she made out with this ugly ***** right in front of me withotu asking or anything, and i saw it as a major sign of disrespect, regardless if girl kissing is "hot".
did u dump her?
way to solve problems !:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
did u dump her?
way to solve problems !:rolleyes:

actually i did for like a day but was only because i was angry at her, but this girl turned out to be really ****ed in the head, and caused me many problems, so i probably never should of tried with her.
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
actually i did for like a day but was only because i was angry at her, but this girl turned out to be really ****ed in the head, and caused me many problems, so i probably never should of tried with her.
oh lol, well i was jus gonna say that its better to tell her that it doesnt turn you on, if u really cant deal with it, rather than take it as a negative right away.

she was just 2 wild for u bro :)
 

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
oh lol, well i was jus gonna say that its better to tell her that it doesnt turn you on, if u really cant deal with it, rather than take it as a negative right away.

she was just 2 wild for u bro :)
well thats not true, it wasnt necessarily the wild part. It was the part where she was a physco and cheated on me with guys even and lied, and physically attacked me in a parking lot with another guy.
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
well thats not true, it wasnt necessarily the wild part. It was the part where she was a physco and cheated on me with guys even and lied, and physically attacked me in a parking lot with another guy.
in that situation i would have beat the guy and raped her face ;)
its fun that way.
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
well thats not true, it wasnt necessarily the wild part. It was the part where she was a physco and cheated on me with guys even and lied, and physically attacked me in a parking lot with another guy.
sounds like what i went through man.Ended three weeks back.
only problem is she did not kiss any ugly B**tch, she ended goin out with her "close" friend behind my back...the worst part that guy is such a fag....and when i confronted her..she said she needed time but intended to marry me.....but never allowed any woman to anwyhere closer to me......though she is able to go out with a guy and display b**tch actions in public with that fag......weird crap.
 

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
in that situation i would have beat the guy and raped her face ;)
its fun that way.
i duno man i tried to just forget about it. But i see these two at school. And i still wana beat the **** out of the guy. This happend like 8 months ago tho. When i see him i look him in the eyes and keep my head high because i know i could take him, and he looks away but says "im afraid of him:"
 

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Originally posted by xhikari
sounds like what i went through man.Ended three weeks back.
only problem is she did not kiss any ugly B**tch, she ended goin out with her "close" friend behind my back...the worst part that guy is such a fag....and when i confronted her..she said she needed time but intended to marry me.....but never allowed any woman to anwyhere closer to me......though she is able to go out with a guy and display b**tch actions in public with that fag......weird crap.
OMG DUDE, my ex gf said thes same **** with the marry me also crap! The guy shes with now is skinny with long blonde hair looks like a ugly skinny version of fabio..... real idiot too.
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
i duno man i tried to just forget about it. But i see these two at school. And i still wana beat the **** out of the guy. This happend like 8 months ago tho. When i see him i look him in the eyes and keep my head high because i know i could take him, and he looks away but says "im afraid of him:"
beat his ass one day dude, just out of the blue tell him not to stare at u and then sock him, its good to be rowdy !
 

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oh man...do we all have to get humiliated with fags????
and why do these fags come in anyway??? some cameo roles or something????
 

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
beat his ass one day dude, just out of the blue tell him not to stare at u and then sock him, its good to be rowdy !
actually by the way he describes the guy....i dun wanna beat him if i was in his position.
i rather get beaten and killed by some "real" gangsters instead of beatin up a fag.....his mummy might come and kill me!! LOL :D
 

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
beat his ass one day dude, just out of the blue tell him not to stare at u and then sock him, its good to be rowdy !
man i want to, i got 65 days of school left. I want to slowly egg him on somehow and build it up. I admit im probably same size as him, but atlesat i know how to fight, ive been boxing. Plus i know hes a coward at heart. ANyone who jumps a guy after a girl socks him in the face twice from behind, is a coward.
 

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Originally posted by xhikari
don't beat up these fags....pay another fag to rape him. LOL
My guess is the wierd bi thing she has. She has short hair, and he has super long hair. Its line gender swapping.
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
My guess is the wierd bi thing she has. She has short hair, and he has super long hair. Its line gender swapping.
hmmmm maybe she's got a thing for "girls" inclusive of men lookin like "girls" LOL
 

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