"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you guys think?

My g/f of about a week now hooked up with one of her girl friends. Its not a big deal in my books, but i'm curious to know what you guys have done in this type of situation.

I know what i'm going to say and how i'm going to play it off. This relationship should be fun, but serious at the same time. Exclusive, but still being able to have a good time. The course of relationships is formed right from the start, I want to give her freedom, but not too much. I dont want her to take a mile, when i give her an inch.

So what are your thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't know why you're so worried about having a serious relationship. I'd take what I can get out of this one, and if she chooses a chick over you... walk away baby! I'd give you better advice, but I gotta take off right now.
 
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99% of all girl on girl kisses are not by lesbians but by straight women with low self esteem trying to get attention from men. Are you sure this was not the case?
 
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Originally posted by Dapper Swindler
99% of all girl on girl kisses are not by lesbians but by straight women with low self esteem trying to get attention from men. Are you sure this was not the case?
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I duno i had a "Bi" girlfriend, and she made out with this ugly ***** right in front of me withotu asking or anything, and i saw it as a major sign of disrespect, regardless if girl kissing is "hot".
 
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Originally posted by Swede54
I duno i had a "Bi" girlfriend, and she made out with this ugly ***** right in front of me withotu asking or anything, and i saw it as a major sign of disrespect, regardless if girl kissing is "hot".
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did u dump her?
way to solve problems !:rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
did u dump her?
way to solve problems !:rolleyes:
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actually i did for like a day but was only because i was angry at her, but this girl turned out to be really ****ed in the head, and caused me many problems, so i probably never should of tried with her.
 
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Originally posted by Swede54
actually i did for like a day but was only because i was angry at her, but this girl turned out to be really ****ed in the head, and caused me many problems, so i probably never should of tried with her.
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oh lol, well i was jus gonna say that its better to tell her that it doesnt turn you on, if u really cant deal with it, rather than take it as a negative right away.

she was just 2 wild for u bro :)
 
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Originally posted by BLUEox117
oh lol, well i was jus gonna say that its better to tell her that it doesnt turn you on, if u really cant deal with it, rather than take it as a negative right away.

she was just 2 wild for u bro :)
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well thats not true, it wasnt necessarily the wild part. It was the part where she was a physco and cheated on me with guys even and lied, and physically attacked me in a parking lot with another guy.
 
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Originally posted by Swede54
well thats not true, it wasnt necessarily the wild part. It was the part where she was a physco and cheated on me with guys even and lied, and physically attacked me in a parking lot with another guy.
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in that situation i would have beat the guy and raped her face ;)
its fun that way.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Swede54
well thats not true, it wasnt necessarily the wild part. It was the part where she was a physco and cheated on me with guys even and lied, and physically attacked me in a parking lot with another guy.
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sounds like what i went through man.Ended three weeks back.
only problem is she did not kiss any ugly B**tch, she ended goin out with her "close" friend behind my back...the worst part that guy is such a fag....and when i confronted her..she said she needed time but intended to marry me.....but never allowed any woman to anwyhere closer to me......though she is able to go out with a guy and display b**tch actions in public with that fag......weird crap.
 
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Originally posted by BLUEox117
in that situation i would have beat the guy and raped her face ;)
its fun that way.
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i duno man i tried to just forget about it. But i see these two at school. And i still wana beat the **** out of the guy. This happend like 8 months ago tho. When i see him i look him in the eyes and keep my head high because i know i could take him, and he looks away but says "im afraid of him:"
 
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Originally posted by xhikari
sounds like what i went through man.Ended three weeks back.
only problem is she did not kiss any ugly B**tch, she ended goin out with her "close" friend behind my back...the worst part that guy is such a fag....and when i confronted her..she said she needed time but intended to marry me.....but never allowed any woman to anwyhere closer to me......though she is able to go out with a guy and display b**tch actions in public with that fag......weird crap.
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OMG DUDE, my ex gf said thes same **** with the marry me also crap! The guy shes with now is skinny with long blonde hair looks like a ugly skinny version of fabio..... real idiot too.
 
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Originally posted by Swede54
i duno man i tried to just forget about it. But i see these two at school. And i still wana beat the **** out of the guy. This happend like 8 months ago tho. When i see him i look him in the eyes and keep my head high because i know i could take him, and he looks away but says "im afraid of him:"
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beat his ass one day dude, just out of the blue tell him not to stare at u and then sock him, its good to be rowdy !
 
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oh man...do we all have to get humiliated with fags????
and why do these fags come in anyway??? some cameo roles or something????
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
beat his ass one day dude, just out of the blue tell him not to stare at u and then sock him, its good to be rowdy !
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actually by the way he describes the guy....i dun wanna beat him if i was in his position.
i rather get beaten and killed by some "real" gangsters instead of beatin up a fag.....his mummy might come and kill me!! LOL :D
 
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Originally posted by BLUEox117
beat his ass one day dude, just out of the blue tell him not to stare at u and then sock him, its good to be rowdy !
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man i want to, i got 65 days of school left. I want to slowly egg him on somehow and build it up. I admit im probably same size as him, but atlesat i know how to fight, ive been boxing. Plus i know hes a coward at heart. ANyone who jumps a guy after a girl socks him in the face twice from behind, is a coward.
 
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Originally posted by xhikari
don't beat up these fags....pay another fag to rape him. LOL
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My guess is the wierd bi thing she has. She has short hair, and he has super long hair. Its line gender swapping.
 
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Originally posted by Swede54
My guess is the wierd bi thing she has. She has short hair, and he has super long hair. Its line gender swapping.
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hmmmm maybe she's got a thing for "girls" inclusive of men lookin like "girls" LOL
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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