"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl keeps leaving stuff in my room

Lordeterra

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Girl keeps leaving her sex toys and bags in my room. It's annoying as ****. She says she wants to leave it here because she doesn't want to keep bringing it back and it's a hassle. I suspect it's because she wants to scare off other girls I'm sleeping with. Should I tell her to **** off?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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r4zorsharp

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Cmon man not everything warrants a question on the DJ discussion. When will some of you men become self sufficient and not in need of asking others such trivial things?

Are you a man or a woman? Women ask for opinions on everything, not men.

However, to help you out, if it bothers you enough, tell her. Duh?
 

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Cmon man not everything warrants a question on the DJ discussion. When will some of you men become self sufficient and not in need of asking others such trivial things?
Some of your posts are stupid, so what gives?
 

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Girl keeps leaving her sex toys and bags in my room. It's annoying as ****. She says she wants to leave it here because she doesn't want to keep bringing it back and it's a hassle. I suspect it's because she wants to scare off other girls I'm sleeping with. Should I tell her to **** off?
She's like a dog peeing on a tree. When the Tampons show up, you have a girlfriend. Uh oh:oops:
 

Lordeterra

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Cmon man not everything warrants a question on the DJ discussion. When will some of you men become self sufficient and not in need of asking others such trivial things?

Are you a man or a woman? Women ask for opinions on everything, not men.

However, to help you out, if it bothers you enough, tell her. Duh?
Just need opinions man. If you have all the answers why are you here? Ain't nothing wrong with seeking advice
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lordeterra

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She's like a dog peeing on a tree. When the Tampons show up, you have a girlfriend. Uh oh:oops:
She leaves stuff everywhere and is super jealous. But sex is good. But on another not maybe a girl seeing another girls stuff is social proof?
 

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She's like a dog peeing on a tree. When the Tampons show up, you have a girlfriend. Uh oh:oops:
This.

She's marking her territory for other girls to see and also to have a reason to keep you two connected. The more jealous the girl, the more stuff she'll leave in your home.
 

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She's claiming territory and telling the other girls you're hers.
 

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Like the others are saying , she is marking her territory . This is a good thing because she really likes you

depends on you if you are really troubled by this or not . If you are troubled then tell her to not leave personal things at your place , but this will mean that she will get the idea that you want only sex from her and soon she will move on
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It depends on your feelings about her. She has strong interest in you, which can be perceived as a good sign.

Hide stuff in closets. That is what closets were designed to do.
 

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You seriously can't make this decision for yourself and need advice?

My lord what has happened to this world?
 

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Girl keeps leaving her sex toys and bags in my room. It's annoying as ****. She says she wants to leave it here because she doesn't want to keep bringing it back and it's a hassle. I suspect it's because she wants to scare off other girls I'm sleeping with. Should I tell her to **** off?

Put her dildos in a line on the table, next to the other ones.
 
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