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Girl keeps asking why I am so mean to her and asked my "number"

alpha_ash

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I usually bust her balls and make fun of her. But after months of treating her the same way, she asked me last night why I am so mean to her. She asked in a very serious tone. Ofcourse I brushed that off too but why did she ask like that? And why now?

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No I am not dating her. Just one of the semi-plates, I am not ****ing her but I use her as company when I have nothing else to do. She also asked me what my "number is. "Number" as in number of girls I have slept with, she used to brag that her number is 3. Again I brushed it off and she tried to get it out of me by saying, "oh I bet it's 0." And I played along, oh you guessed it, that's it!"
 

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You dating the chick?
 

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Igetit! said:
You dating the chick?
No I am not. Just one of the semi-plates, I am not ****ing her but I use her as company when I have nothing else to do. She also asked me what my "number is. "Number" as in number of girls I have slept with, she used to brag that her number is 3. Again I brushed it off and she tried to get it out of me by saying, "oh I bet it's 0." And I played along, oh you guessed it, that's it!"
 

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alpha_ash said:
No I am not. Just one of the semi-plates, I am not ****ing her but I use her as company when I have nothing else to do. She also asked me what my "number is. "Number" as in number of girls I have slept with, she used to brag that her number is 3. Again I brushed it off and she tried to get it out of me by saying, "oh I bet it's 0." And I played along, oh you guessed it, that's it!"

Ohh-kay. Well if you're not dating her,nor are you sleeping with her.....then what is it you want with her? You call her a "plate",(or "semi-plate"),but....well why?


Her question is actually legit. If you're not sleeping with her,or are even trying to,then what's the point of you "busting her balls" and making fun of her? What for?

And you said you've been doing that for MONTHS??? Why?


So this chick is just out minding her own business,then out of the blue,you make some random rude (in her mind) comment. And you've been doing that over and over again....for months.

If I were her,I'd wonder what your problem was too.
 

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The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is not a plate in any form or fashion...it's just a friend or a LJBF girl that you want to f%ck.. Why are you even wasting time with her and busting her balls??? and after months??? Do you want to f%ck her....it sounds like a LJBF to me, so what is the point of playing games and busting her balls?
 

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zinc4 said:
This is not a plate in any form or fashion...it's just a friend or a LJBF girl that you want to f%ck.. Why are you even wasting time with her and busting her balls??? and after months??? Do you want to f%ck her....it sounds like a LJBF to me, so what is the point of playing games and busting her balls?
Actually, my bad here, its not months. I have known her for months, but its only the past month that we started spending more time together.

I don't want to bang her for a specific reason that I can't share even anonymously. BUT the reason I call her a semi-plate is because I use her as a "testing ground" for my game. I fool around with her to see what type of reactions I get to various things I say and do around her. I have used some lies and some truth as an experiment.
 
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