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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Girl keeps asking why I am so mean to her and asked my "number"

alpha_ash

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I usually bust her balls and make fun of her. But after months of treating her the same way, she asked me last night why I am so mean to her. She asked in a very serious tone. Ofcourse I brushed that off too but why did she ask like that? And why now?

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No I am not dating her. Just one of the semi-plates, I am not ****ing her but I use her as company when I have nothing else to do. She also asked me what my "number is. "Number" as in number of girls I have slept with, she used to brag that her number is 3. Again I brushed it off and she tried to get it out of me by saying, "oh I bet it's 0." And I played along, oh you guessed it, that's it!"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You dating the chick?
 

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Igetit! said:
You dating the chick?
No I am not. Just one of the semi-plates, I am not ****ing her but I use her as company when I have nothing else to do. She also asked me what my "number is. "Number" as in number of girls I have slept with, she used to brag that her number is 3. Again I brushed it off and she tried to get it out of me by saying, "oh I bet it's 0." And I played along, oh you guessed it, that's it!"
 

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alpha_ash said:
No I am not. Just one of the semi-plates, I am not ****ing her but I use her as company when I have nothing else to do. She also asked me what my "number is. "Number" as in number of girls I have slept with, she used to brag that her number is 3. Again I brushed it off and she tried to get it out of me by saying, "oh I bet it's 0." And I played along, oh you guessed it, that's it!"

Ohh-kay. Well if you're not dating her,nor are you sleeping with her.....then what is it you want with her? You call her a "plate",(or "semi-plate"),but....well why?


Her question is actually legit. If you're not sleeping with her,or are even trying to,then what's the point of you "busting her balls" and making fun of her? What for?

And you said you've been doing that for MONTHS??? Why?


So this chick is just out minding her own business,then out of the blue,you make some random rude (in her mind) comment. And you've been doing that over and over again....for months.

If I were her,I'd wonder what your problem was too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is not a plate in any form or fashion...it's just a friend or a LJBF girl that you want to f%ck.. Why are you even wasting time with her and busting her balls??? and after months??? Do you want to f%ck her....it sounds like a LJBF to me, so what is the point of playing games and busting her balls?
 

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zinc4 said:
This is not a plate in any form or fashion...it's just a friend or a LJBF girl that you want to f%ck.. Why are you even wasting time with her and busting her balls??? and after months??? Do you want to f%ck her....it sounds like a LJBF to me, so what is the point of playing games and busting her balls?
Actually, my bad here, its not months. I have known her for months, but its only the past month that we started spending more time together.

I don't want to bang her for a specific reason that I can't share even anonymously. BUT the reason I call her a semi-plate is because I use her as a "testing ground" for my game. I fool around with her to see what type of reactions I get to various things I say and do around her. I have used some lies and some truth as an experiment.
 
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