Was planning on asking a girl out, but that backfired a lot. I was going to add some fluff before asking, so I started out with a casual hey what's up. The conversation was going well too. She was replying with good responses and within 5 minutes of my responses. I send her a text which I didn't was bad and never got a response. It has been 8 hours since lol. First, I know the girl is interested. Was going to ask her out after her response, but I guess that is not happening.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girl just stops responding in mid conversation
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mike32ct
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Video games give you three or more lives before you have to hit reset and start the game over.
Unfortunately, girls only give you one.
What I'm trying to say is that unless a girl's interest level is SUPER high, they aren't forgiving. The slightest thing can turn them off and cause it to be game over with them.
Hit the reset button by finding another girl.
You tried. Don't sweat it man.
Unfortunately, girls only give you one.
What I'm trying to say is that unless a girl's interest level is SUPER high, they aren't forgiving. The slightest thing can turn them off and cause it to be game over with them.
Hit the reset button by finding another girl.
You tried. Don't sweat it man.
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Judge nismo will quote a video game I enjoy when I'm not in the courtroom and solve this whole case:Mike32ct said:
Thank you JPlaya (for trying)! :woo:
But your princess is in another castle! (You tried and failed, I'm not interested in you, now leave me alone!)
You are guilty of failure to spin plates. The fine is 8 hours of cold time alone, 2 blue balls, and a trip to Justafriend Lake, Minnesota.
Understanding that this girl just isn't that into you, moving on, and spinning more plates is the best move right now that is for you. That's my ruling.
Case closed.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She doesn't have to have high interest to give you another shot, but it can take weeks or months for things to reset. Toss her onto the backburner and show some other chicks a good time so she can see what she's missing out on. Test the waters later and see if things have improved, what have you got to lose other than never finding out?Mike32ct said:
Some guys around here are too quick to dismiss a chick because she didn't have high interest right that moment. A woman's interest tends to be somewhat cyclical, it might just not have been a good time and you'll have better luck a short while down the road.