Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl just mewed at me?

christoff522

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Okay I am talking to this russian bird. She seems really nice. We have said we will meet in Paris.

Anyway, we were saying goodnight.

Then she replies

"mew"

What on earth does this mean?
Is she trying to be cute?
Please clarify this for me if you have encountered it in the past.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zekko

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Was it Catwoman?
 

Once Bitten

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You should have purred, then growled enthusiastically to her. In her ear.
Maybe she wants you to "chase the kitty" around the barnyard before getting humped. lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dear Christoff,
A very difficult one...could be good or otherwise...what is important is her demeanour as she played at being a pvssy...Remember the old Westerns?... "Smile when you say that podner".....She wants to meet,so "To Paris with love".
 

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This was via whatsapp, so there would be no purring or growling.

Weird, today she messaged me saying she was sad, and that she wanted to voicechat when she finished work.
She didn't call me, and I am not going to worry about it.

Another thing, she never messages me, so I message her every few days, and every time I message she says she has been thinking about me. She even said "you always message when I am thinking about you"

She is an odd 'un haha

Anyway, whatever the outcome, I am happy! I just find her behaviour fascinating, she reminds me of that girl from Scott Pilgrim, but in a demure, natural woman way, she doesn't have purple hair.

Yes Paris with love indeed!!
Thanks guys, you're the best!
 

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Hey bro :D

I view this place as a sanctuary where I can post whatever bothers me without turning beta as f**k on a girl.

If she doesn't message me she doesn't get a message for at least a couple of days, I often would forget about her.

My future doesn't really coincide with a Russian girl anyway unless she adapts to my plans, and if she wasn't so pretty I would have ignored her a long time ago the way things have been. I'm being patient with her really.

She may be gauging my interest, apparently (from what I have studied) Russian women take a long time to trust someone, and then when they do they become the perfect girlfriend - obviously this is from a Russian woman.

Its weird, when it's quiet it's almost as if we've never met. But when we talk, she seems very interested.

Like I say, I'm not particularly concerned about the situation, oh and..about mew meaning an ignore until the next day - it was well past 1am in Russia when she sent that message, and the next day she tried to call me, but my phone was on flight mode. She did try to instigate yesterday - which is really unusual for her.

So I have no idea what is going through her head right now haha

It's hard to really describe her personality - whimsical?
 
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