"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl just mewed at me?

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Okay I am talking to this russian bird. She seems really nice. We have said we will meet in Paris.

Anyway, we were saying goodnight.

Then she replies

"mew"

What on earth does this mean?
Is she trying to be cute?
Please clarify this for me if you have encountered it in the past.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Was it Catwoman?
 
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You should have purred, then growled enthusiastically to her. In her ear.
Maybe she wants you to "chase the kitty" around the barnyard before getting humped. lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dear Christoff,
A very difficult one...could be good or otherwise...what is important is her demeanour as she played at being a pvssy...Remember the old Westerns?... "Smile when you say that podner".....She wants to meet,so "To Paris with love".
 
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This was via whatsapp, so there would be no purring or growling.

Weird, today she messaged me saying she was sad, and that she wanted to voicechat when she finished work.
She didn't call me, and I am not going to worry about it.

Another thing, she never messages me, so I message her every few days, and every time I message she says she has been thinking about me. She even said "you always message when I am thinking about you"

She is an odd 'un haha

Anyway, whatever the outcome, I am happy! I just find her behaviour fascinating, she reminds me of that girl from Scott Pilgrim, but in a demure, natural woman way, she doesn't have purple hair.

Yes Paris with love indeed!!
Thanks guys, you're the best!
 
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Hey bro :D

I view this place as a sanctuary where I can post whatever bothers me without turning beta as f**k on a girl.

If she doesn't message me she doesn't get a message for at least a couple of days, I often would forget about her.

My future doesn't really coincide with a Russian girl anyway unless she adapts to my plans, and if she wasn't so pretty I would have ignored her a long time ago the way things have been. I'm being patient with her really.

She may be gauging my interest, apparently (from what I have studied) Russian women take a long time to trust someone, and then when they do they become the perfect girlfriend - obviously this is from a Russian woman.

Its weird, when it's quiet it's almost as if we've never met. But when we talk, she seems very interested.

Like I say, I'm not particularly concerned about the situation, oh and..about mew meaning an ignore until the next day - it was well past 1am in Russia when she sent that message, and the next day she tried to call me, but my phone was on flight mode. She did try to instigate yesterday - which is really unusual for her.

So I have no idea what is going through her head right now haha

It's hard to really describe her personality - whimsical?
 
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