Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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gbpackers

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Hi.. I'm new here and I read the bible and everything, and I was just wondering what I should do here. This girl i know for a couple of years (I was never close friends and havent seen or talked to her in months) just broke up with her boyfriend a couple weeks ago.

I was thinking of going out with her and hooking up with her and stuff but im not sure if i should do this. I was looking for advice on how i should go about doing this.

I was first thinking of hanging out with her or something and then taking it a step further after each time we hang out.

please give me tips and if it is a good idea if she just broke up with her boyfriend couple weeks ago.... and if that doesnt matter how i should go about doing it.

thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr. Debonaire

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Her breaking up with the boyfriend makes no difference towards you, as long as SHE ended it. if they were really close and he dumped her then maybe talk to her but let her chill for a while before pulling any major maneuvers.

if she was cool with the split, then just start up a convo, using c&f always, then if all goes well say you guys should hang out eg party, grab some pizza etc.

it really is that simple
 

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ok I just found out the girl is still with her boyfriend. I still want to talk to her though and see what happens.

I was wondering if anyone had any tips.


I read this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18373

and it had some good responses but I was wondering if you guys had some more ideas


i know it kind of sounds like i have oneitis, but thats not the case, i can get another girl, i just want to see what my chances are with this one.
 

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yeah thats fine. Its good you dont back down whe you found out she had a bf. Assume she is single andl likes you......alway! it wil help
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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