Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl jerked my chains...feels rage.

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maverick72

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I started emailing this HB8 girl on Match.com, she is quite younger. Anyway, I said to her "its time to make some serious choices in life and settle down and stop hanging out with your friends at bars and clubs. You are approaching 35.
Time to make decisions such as having a family vs. partying the rest of your life. When you turn 40 it will be harder to find the right one.

She replys "since my clock is ticking when are you going to aks me out lol"

I sensed it was a b*tch test.

So I said "where did that come from lol?"

Then she replies "just waiting for you to ask me out."

I said..."slow downnn" I am content on getting to know you through emails for a while and maybe a phone calls later. We can plan a time to meet sometime in the future. There is no rush."

She replies " I wouldn't go out with you! lol....wow you are so serious!"

OUCH. She jerked me around.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Woww....what a total ****. Bishes and their computers...remind me to never use Match, it'll probably be worse for me in 10 years..
 
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Go silent, and most of all dont reply a "I wouldnt go out with you too".
It would make her

The last thing you want is burn your chances or reward her for those "jokes".
 
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I already lost my cool...

I told her to "f*ck off. and that she was a dogface in her photos compared to her friends. Good luck with that..."

In fact I was right about it and honest. She wasnt as cute as her friends.

I know thats not the don juan attitude at all---but it felt pretty good to slam her.

I'm s*ck of women acting like they are all that. I've been with some hot ladies, and when the clothes come off and your actually sexing them...it doesn't matter if they are ugly or hot. They all start to look the same after a while.
 
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Didn't you just make a post 2 days ago about how everyone on this site is a nerd and a loser and that you wanted your account deleted?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eureka said:
Didn't you just make a post 2 days ago about how everyone on this site is a nerd and a loser and that you wanted your account deleted?
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This guy is an epic troll

:kick:

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Iceberg

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Solomon said:
This guy is an epic troll

:kick:

:whistle:
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Thanks for the warning. I almost wasted a few minutes trying to help him out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm in the Mood

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maverick72 said:
I said..."slow downnn" I am content on getting to know you through emails for a while and maybe a phone calls later. We can plan a time to meet sometime in the future. There is no rush."
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Everything else was good, but this sounds a little creepy. You should have just played around instead of getting all serious on her. It makes you sound desperate IMO.
 
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