"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girl i've known for years confusing me lately...

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tony-montana

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so theres this girl i met online years ago like 5 or so. she used to call me almost every night but i kind of pushed her away. i just wasn't feeling anything else apart from friendship at the time. that was like the first year we met. but lately this year she's been extra nice and possibly a bit sexual. she doesn't call anymore. i used to call her too but i stopped. just today she suddenly said she wants to write me a letter and send it to me (my house) ... she's sent me a movie once lol. anyway, sometimes we also joke and she talks about something like, if my friend would be with us she'd push me up against a wall and kiss me so my friend would get angry (we always joke about him cause he looks funny).

so yeah i'm kinda confused. is she just being friendly or does she really like me :S

note: she has a few guy friends. she's not really a girly girl (in the head) but she dresses like one. just doesn't act like a dumb blonde b!tch. she's smart and cute and we get along every time we talk. i just don't wanna get confused. last night she text my phone at like 10pm. she does that randomly sometimes. she was drunk though. but she does it too when she's not. she sends me videos of her and her roommate when they do stuff and she showed me a pic of her tits (it was with clothes though she was just showin her dress off) - we tell each other everything, we trust each other... we get along and always laugh. this is doing my head in ;/

any suggestions?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have you ever met her in the flesh ? do you like her, do want a sexual relationship with her ? If so you need to esculate things...go for the kiss. You have to take things out of the friend zone you've been in for 5 years.

If she's not interested she'll tell you she just wants to be friends. If this is the case...you can keep her as a friend as long as it's not stopping you from seeking out available women who want an intimate relationship with you.
 
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