"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girl i've known for years confusing me lately...

tony-montana

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so theres this girl i met online years ago like 5 or so. she used to call me almost every night but i kind of pushed her away. i just wasn't feeling anything else apart from friendship at the time. that was like the first year we met. but lately this year she's been extra nice and possibly a bit sexual. she doesn't call anymore. i used to call her too but i stopped. just today she suddenly said she wants to write me a letter and send it to me (my house) ... she's sent me a movie once lol. anyway, sometimes we also joke and she talks about something like, if my friend would be with us she'd push me up against a wall and kiss me so my friend would get angry (we always joke about him cause he looks funny).

so yeah i'm kinda confused. is she just being friendly or does she really like me :S

note: she has a few guy friends. she's not really a girly girl (in the head) but she dresses like one. just doesn't act like a dumb blonde b!tch. she's smart and cute and we get along every time we talk. i just don't wanna get confused. last night she text my phone at like 10pm. she does that randomly sometimes. she was drunk though. but she does it too when she's not. she sends me videos of her and her roommate when they do stuff and she showed me a pic of her tits (it was with clothes though she was just showin her dress off) - we tell each other everything, we trust each other... we get along and always laugh. this is doing my head in ;/

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Have you ever met her in the flesh ? do you like her, do want a sexual relationship with her ? If so you need to esculate things...go for the kiss. You have to take things out of the friend zone you've been in for 5 years.

If she's not interested she'll tell you she just wants to be friends. If this is the case...you can keep her as a friend as long as it's not stopping you from seeking out available women who want an intimate relationship with you.
 
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