"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl is taking me to lunch tomorrow

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yeah, I told this chick she was taking me to lunch tomorrow and she agreed. I've known her for a few months but I haven't hung out with her outside of the classroom. I like her way better than the hotties I've been dealing with lately. She let's me do what i want with her that isn't sexual so far and thats the thing. She doesn't object to any thing i want from her. I grab her belongings, I touch her , punch her, push her, insult her and she just smiles and let's me do my thing. I like that a lot but I've never had a girl be so passive and so I'm wondering if she'll let me kiss her. I'm trying to think wether I should kiss her or not. Its gonna be soo f*cking cool! The only thing though is that she told me that when she was 13 some guy tried to rape her and in the process he had a heart attack and I think he died. F*cked up sh*t and rape is something that lingers in a girl's mind and I don't want her to think I'm trying to take advantage of her. I've always been scared of the concept of being sued, or arrested over kissing a girl out of nowhere.

I'm thinking that while in the car I'll make some good convo, get her vibing and somewhere in the process I could use something that i read on ASF about asking the girl if she's spontaneous and adventurous and if she is, it should lead to "would you like to kiss me?" and see if that does any charm. Wish me luck, and hopefully she won't flake.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dude,kissing is not rape, although punching her could be if you kiss her straight after:D :D :D ,hey just relax if shes into you shes not exactly gonna go calling the cops,she'll just feel even more attraction because showing the confidence to just go in for the kill is a big turn on for girls.It will be fine good luck
 
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lol...now she is asking me if I wanna do chinese or mexican. I don't give a ****. Now that reminds me, I need a pack of gum or mints..damn. wish me luck
 
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