"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl is taking me to lunch tomorrow

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yeah, I told this chick she was taking me to lunch tomorrow and she agreed. I've known her for a few months but I haven't hung out with her outside of the classroom. I like her way better than the hotties I've been dealing with lately. She let's me do what i want with her that isn't sexual so far and thats the thing. She doesn't object to any thing i want from her. I grab her belongings, I touch her , punch her, push her, insult her and she just smiles and let's me do my thing. I like that a lot but I've never had a girl be so passive and so I'm wondering if she'll let me kiss her. I'm trying to think wether I should kiss her or not. Its gonna be soo f*cking cool! The only thing though is that she told me that when she was 13 some guy tried to rape her and in the process he had a heart attack and I think he died. F*cked up sh*t and rape is something that lingers in a girl's mind and I don't want her to think I'm trying to take advantage of her. I've always been scared of the concept of being sued, or arrested over kissing a girl out of nowhere.

I'm thinking that while in the car I'll make some good convo, get her vibing and somewhere in the process I could use something that i read on ASF about asking the girl if she's spontaneous and adventurous and if she is, it should lead to "would you like to kiss me?" and see if that does any charm. Wish me luck, and hopefully she won't flake.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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fc kie

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dude,kissing is not rape, although punching her could be if you kiss her straight after:D :D :D ,hey just relax if shes into you shes not exactly gonna go calling the cops,she'll just feel even more attraction because showing the confidence to just go in for the kill is a big turn on for girls.It will be fine good luck
 
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lol...now she is asking me if I wanna do chinese or mexican. I don't give a ****. Now that reminds me, I need a pack of gum or mints..damn. wish me luck
 
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