"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl is so frigid - she doesn't answer her phone

spax

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So Im sitting at my PC jacking it to some porn when I get this message from this girl I mean gaming saying that she was bored and wanted to talk.

I wait about 10 mins, then try callin her.

No answer.

Fine, I message her and say "Ey, i tried calling, you didnt pick up"

5 seconds later she replies "oh sorry, I was in the wrong room and didnt hear it."

Hmm...so you couldn't hear your phone ringing but you could hear that you got a message right....?

So I call again........no answer.

NEXT PLEASE!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spax

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omg, this is chick must be like the worlds biggest attention seeker.

I just got this message - "so whats ur name agen?"


wtf?!?!!!!
 

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When chicks call you because they're "bored," I think that tends to be a bad sign. You still probably did the right thing in calling the first time, but you probably shouldn't have responded to her text message. She should've called you back, not messaged you.

Texting girls is mostly about bullsh1t. I mainly use it to confirm dates nowadays. (Ie, I talk to them Monday-Sunday, then I text them Thursday or whenever to remind them when we're meeting)

But yeah, I'd next. She sounds like she's just using you. A alot of girls have a tendency to do that if they can get away with it. There's no real love in your case.
 

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spax said:
So Im sitting at my PC jacking it to some porn when I get this message from this girl I mean gaming saying that she was bored and wanted to talk.

I wait about 10 mins, then try callin her.

No answer.

Fine, I message her and say "Ey, i tried calling, you didnt pick up"

5 seconds later she replies "oh sorry, I was in the wrong room and didnt hear it."
:crackup:

You gotta love'em.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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