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Theres this girl I know, who I Like and she has A LOT of guy friends and only like 2 friends that are girls. I think she thinks me as a friend, but I want to be able to do something to get her out of that, all guys are friends mind state. any help?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This raises a good question: What does a girl's type of friends say about her?

Like, if they're all male vs all female? Single vs married? Etc?

I'm guessing if they're all male, she enjoys using her looks to manipulate men as tools. She's also probably quite attractive, which is why other women don't trust her.
 

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The reason may be you are too available just all her other guy friends. You want to stand out so start running really good attraction game and build attraction.

And o yea remember that IT'S ALWAYS ON. So even if it feels like you are in the friendzone, if you have good attraction game you can turn that around. So start so push pull, ****y and funny, good storytelling and then throw in a jealous plotline. Jealous plotlines really amplify attraction especially when you feel she's into you but not as much as she could or should be.

IT'S ALWAYS ON.

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If she has a LOT of guy friends and just a few girl friends, this is a huge indication that she is an attention wh0re. Watch her behavior with these other guy friends. She keeps them around by dressing suggestively, flirting with them, might even tease them by "considering" them and keeping them in limbo. She will use them for rides, free food, gifts, etc. This type of female is usually insecure and has an addiction to male validation. These girls will probably never date out of her pool of guy friends, as this could jeapordize her on-demand male attention machine. All girls do this to some extent, but the attention wh0re is an especially vicious breed. She will deny her behavior and act innocent. Don't be fooled.

I suggest you call her out on her little game and then cut off communication.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hi2u said:
If she has a LOT of guy friends and just a few girl friends, this is a huge indication that she is an attention *****. Watch her behavior with these other guy friends. She keeps them around by dressing suggestively, flirting with them, might even tease them by "considering" them and keeping them in limbo. This type of female is usually insecure and has an addiction to male validation. These girls will probably never date out of her pool of guy friends, as this could jeapordize her on-demand male attention machine.
You are soooo right! BINGO! Attention wh0re who NEEDS constant male validation. Often due to an absentee daddy and sense of abandonment. This type of girl will typically have a high partner count and cheats a lot because she obsessively seeks out male attention for her looks like a crackhead seeks rocks.

So, what can such a girl do to resolve her missing daddy issues here?

And, what about a girl with a lot of female friends? What does that tell us? "Normal?"
 

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High partner count and cheating is just a slvt :) Those are easy. Attention *****s don't give up the pvssy. They're in it for the attention and free stuff.
 

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hi2u said:
High partner count and cheating is just a slvt :) Those are easy. Attention *****s don't give up the pvssy. They're in it for the attention and free stuff.
Are you kidding me? I believe that so-called "sluts" are actually the biggest attention wh0res!

Although I agree that your textbook attention wh0re is no where NEAR as easy as she will lead you on as. Many of them are c0ckteasing blueball queens. On the other hand, they're not nuns, either..
 

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Oh yes, sluts are attention wh0res taken to an extreme. An attention wh0re is just a slut waiting to happen. They have dropped their ASD after eventually they give it up to multiple partners and it's worn down. Without ASD, an attention wh0re will rapidly develop more and more partners as their unquenchable desire for male validation takes total control of their life. It's kind of sad.
 

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but shes not a slut! she doesnt act flirty around any of her guy friends really. I have tried C+F, neg hits etc. but she just thinks im doing it in a frendly way
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wayword said:
This raises a good question: What does a girl's type of friends say about her?

Like, if they're all male vs all female? Single vs married? Etc?

I'm guessing if they're all male, she enjoys using her looks to manipulate men as tools. She's also probably quite attractive, which is why other women don't trust her.
nah. i know alot of tomboyish girls who have a bunch of best guy friends. theyre total cross legs and are nasty.

probably lesbians actually.
 

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she was like, i like guys who are sexy, but i dont feel any sexyness coming form you or some bull****
 

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I say go for the kino..

like, say:

hey remember you said you didnt feel any sexyness comming? I think you have the same problem.. want me to make you feel sexy? (in a joking way) and then go for a massage or something

^ is that completely stupid?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WTF?

Attention *****s because she hangs out with alot of men and no girls. I know alot of girl friends who hangs out with alot of guys and don't hang with no girls, and they do not act like no attention *****. They chill and get joked on just like all the other guys, if were playing around we throw **** at them same as the guys. Just because she is a girl we don't treat her special. I've yet to find her beg for any attention she mainly is quiet unless someone is annoying her or if she is in a conversation with us.

An yall just love calling girls Sluts, why I have no clue, because in the end it seems like those same sluts is what yall are chasing after. A girl is a girl, what yall are calling sluts are girls who are more sexual. So yall can go game some nuns who you can't even have fun with because she would never allow you to maybe finger her in the movie theater or even put your finger in that area.
 

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Be quick to kick her to the curb. Take it from a guy who's walked a mile in your shoes. It ain't worth your time. I spent like a year one time trying to win over a LJBF girl. :down: We'll just leave it at that.
 

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Moving on has no negative side effects, only positive. You get over her, you build social proof by dating and being seen with other girls, and maybe eventually she will realize her mistake in not seeing the prize that you are.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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