girl is playing hard to get?Dementia

[Deadly_Assassin]

cos this is a discussion forum I wanna get some advice. I like this girl from my church, she pretty looking and got a really friendly personality. She seems pretty hard out into church. I have doing some kino on her like tickling playful pushing and punching and she tends to respond positively she laughs and always punches back etc. Quite a few guys like her as well from church but I am not really worried about them and they all know I am a bit of a stud with the ladies. But some of them have asked her out and got rejected and most of the guys from church say shes hard to get. How should play the rest of the game with her. Like I got her number and a few days later I texted her but she kinda seemed busy when I texted her (I didnt ask her out) but she was like i gotta go library now catchya in the second text itself. so i havent texted since. My mates gf said that she might be playing hard to get but she seems into me the way the responds to the tickling and blah blah. My mates gf doesnt know the chick and she doesnt go church. What do u guys reckon is there anyway of knowing if this girl is interested? I was thinking of backing off for a while and see if she comes upto me and talks to me. But if I keep doing it she might loose interest. Dementia or anyone else whos been in this situation before ur help would really be appreciated

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

she seems to be responding well, i dnt no about the texts thou, you didnt give enough detail. NOw you say she rejected other people but they are not 'as good' as you. Well if this is true then why it should it matter to you because if you better then if she rejected them it does not mean she will reject you, everything seems fine but its hard to say as you where a little vague.

hope ive been a help

 

[Anaconda]

You got the number, ask her out. If she really likes you, there'll be no game because she'll be afraid, too, that you'd loose interest on her. Even if she's playing hard to get, there'll be a counter offer or she'll call back later if she doesn't hear anything from you. So, if you ask her and she just shoots you down then just wait. DO NOT make a second offer right away. That's what most loosers would do, they'd try every single day in the week after she said NO until she says she'll be out of town for the next 2 months. Wait until she calls back and ask for another date, if she shoots you down again, NEXT.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

I got the number on sunday and I texted her Thursday. This was my first text.

ME-----Hey its Deadly_assassin hows it going did u go shadowz today? (Shadowz is a bar at the uni she goes to, shes a christian so she probably doesnt go there but who knows, so we joke about going there)

HER---Shadowz was good I think I was your dad there lol ( what a smartass chick) how was your day?

ME----Hahaha really ? yeah he did look pretty happy leaving for work this morning. My day was alright I am off to work now, U at uni doing life drawings?(she does art at uni)

HER--Yea its compulsary we had to draw a nude male. I got akido training tonite ( some martial arts self defence crap) Have fun at work

ME---Yea I got a whole girls hockey team coming to play mini golf (I work at mini golf) and I gotta teach them how to play and wot not. How long is your training?

HER--Ohhhh rite you beta watch yourself. Training is hour and a half. I am off to the library now catchya

I didnt relpy. I am thinking of not too and just wait and c if she replies. But I am gonna c her at church this sunday and I was thinking of seeing if she comes up to me and talks to me. I was thinking of just being normal with her like joking around playfighting and tickling but wait for her to text first? Cos last time I saw her at church I was just talking to her mate and she came and started talking to us she said hey Deadly_assassin how are you and I replied saying hey hows it going I am good and then I just kinda turned away and kept talking to my other mate.

Bout the other guys I talked to my mate who kinda knew her before I started talking to her hes already got a gf. He said that shes real hard to get and that shes not really into guys. I was like ohk.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

another thing when I asked for her number she asked for mine as well.

 

[Seeph]

This is all good. Now use the 3 day rule atleast and ask her out. I have found that the best way to get these types of girls is to not make it sound like a date. bring up movies or something and she will say something like "oh yea i wanna see that movie it looks great" and then you reply with "Awsome, how about we go see it this weekend?" and just do things like that.. getting her out and isolating her.. get her to go to the uni with you.. get her to teach you some Akido .. its very hands-on and focuses on throwing and joint manipulation.. gives her a chance to pin you and for you to be within distance of a kiss.. When she asked for your # it means she's potentially interested in you or that she dispises you and wants to know when you call so she can not answer.. which this is not the case because she had a txt convo with you. So get the ball rolln dude.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

I like that idea of asking her of showing me some akido moves. cheers but when I ask her out u are saying I shouldnt make it sound like a date? And if she did ask my number just so that she would knw its me calling just to avoid me hmmmmm I will c if she comes up to me and talks at church. I was thinking of asking her if she was single cos I dont know yet if she has a bf or if she has anyone in mind.

Lets call this chick E.

Last time at church she was sitting a couple of row in front of me. I was right at the back. She was sitting with her mate and her mates bf ( me and him are mates) The mates bf was sitting in between E and her mate. When i came and sat down at the back her chick mate turned around and saw me and then she looked at E and she looked back at me and said with a slightly loud voice " hey deadly_assassin I wanna sell my cell phone". And she had this funny smile on her face. I was like yea how much. And the mate was like ummmmmmmm about 100 bucks. She took a while to answer and I knew she was making crap up on the spot. The whole time E was busy talking to someone else. I didnt know what to make of this but my guess was she was trying to tell E that I was sitting at the back ( I am not to sure I am just having a guess) So this sunday I might ask her mate if she still wants to sell her cell phone and c what she says. I was thinking of asking her mate who E liked or if she had a bf. But by doing this I know she will go tell E that I asked her all these questions about her and she might play more harder to get with me knowing I am intrested.