“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Girl is DTF, But... social group

B

bob2007

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2001
Messages
494
Reaction score
43
Location
NY
Girl is down for it. I'm not interested in anything other than that with her.
So I will say , I don't want a relationship.

But... we are part of a social group that plays volleyball. I will want to hit on girls there after the deed.

How to proceed? Or just do it, and see what happens. She may or may not be already banging other guys at vball.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Bokanovsky

Bokanovsky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2012
Messages
5,443
Reaction score
5,566
If you bang her, other girls in the group will know. Guaranteed. And if she's less attractive than the other girls in the group, it will ruin your chances with the other girls. Conversely, if she's hotter, you will become more popular.
 
S

skinnyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2013
Messages
3,422
Reaction score
1,235
Bokanovsky said:
If you bang her, other girls in the group will know. Guaranteed. And if she's less attractive than the other girls in the group, it will ruin your chances with the other girls. Conversely, if she's hotter, you will become more popular.
Click to expand...
Not necessarily true. Even if she isn't as hot, it might make the other women attracted to him. Because they'll think "why didn't he fvck me instead of her?"
 
Bokanovsky

Bokanovsky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2012
Messages
5,443
Reaction score
5,566
skinnyguy said:
Not necessarily true. Even if she isn't as hot, it might make the other women attracted to him. Because they'll think "why didn't he fvck me instead of her?"
Click to expand...
Because she's easy. No big mystery there.

It's the same dynamic you'd observe on a club dance floor. If you're seen dancing with a fatty, your social value goes down. If you're seen dancing with a hottie, you can go up to any other chick afterwards and she'll want to dance with you.
 
B

bob2007

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2001
Messages
494
Reaction score
43
Location
NY
Bokanovsky said:
Because she's easy. No big mystery there.

It's the same dynamic you'd observe on a club dance floor. If you're seen dancing with a fatty, your social value goes down. If you're seen dancing with a hottie, you can go up to any other chick afterwards and she'll want to dance with you.
Click to expand...
It usually could go both ways but, in this case. She will be clingy... and make it obvious to everyone. Already does... and we're not dating.

And the secondary problem is, I already dated another girl from vball who was hot. This is like my only social group atm Toronto.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top