"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl is da bomb....her man ain't got sh#t on me..

Numbar Won

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Here's the deal with this woman I wanna jump all over. She's gotta man, I wanna tagg that ass like the bam! She flirts with me and what not ,(roommate tries to say he thinks she likes me,I'm like u think?) i try not to make it too apparent that i REALLY like her. The ****ed up thing is she showed more interest first in the past, when i questioned if she would even fancy me in the tinest bit. Now to outside observers, it is kinda obvious. There's lots of tension sometimes, i never wanted someone so bad in my short life. She is moving outta town,but not the state in a few weeks, should I at least try for sex before i'll be sitting arund wondering what if for the rest of my life? Oh, i dont' care about hurting anyone's feelings, mine have been trampled on enough in the past, so I think that telling her how I feel might not be such a good idea. Please ,anyone give your two cents!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She has to pursue you if she's really interested. Girls with bf's are the aggressors when they decide to cheat. The fact that your saying you "REALLY like her" shows major signs of AFC'ness. How long have you known her? I seriously doubt anything is going to happen by what you've told us. Is there any touching, sexual flirting etc?


Give us more info here.



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:cool:
 

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Yeah, i guess i am just sexually attracted to her like, strongly. Yestertday, she seemed to find ways to touch or hit me. I tried to gauge her intentions by putting her in "suggestive" wrestling holds, but she didn't seem to mind in fact when i put in her in a full nelson she was all giggly. Fuc ,alright i did it to see what she would do when she could feel my "Sh#t " knocking on her back door. My roommate seems to think she is the kinda girl that is down for anything. I know it would by dangerous to leave us alone for more than 15 minutes.

People don't own other people like property, life's too short, da ***** ain't got no ring on her finger, yada yada yada. I think I am just gonna try and kiss her .i'm the type not to ask for a kisss or tell the chic, i just feel like doing it when I feel it is right, I dunno,some of you guys know what i'm talking about. Like when your talking to her, all the sudden you both shut up, look in to each others eyes and then it just happens.
 

Ol'BlueEyes

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just don't expect too much

If you must **** her, leave it at that; don't expect a relationship.
Especially if she leaves town...she'll find another guy quickly.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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