"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys, im going 2 keep this short and sweet.

I kissed a girl ive known for 2 years about 3 weeks ago,I fancied her a lot, but wasnt getting a positive response. She didnt want a relationship at the moment and last tuesday txt me saying basically " friendzone!" So i didnt reply cos i was pissed that it fell through. So i just ignored her and got on doing my own things
She txt me last night saying y i was ignoring her, i told her i wasnt ,that i undserstood she didnt want a relationship. I told her that i thought there was something between us,but i was wrong. She goes on a rant then saying dat was the point and she wanted 2b honest,well if u have know me for the last 2 years then u know im not a *****.
So i replied it was cool, i was upset at the time,im fine now,doesnt bother me and it was late and wanted 2 go 2 bed. nite
She replied saying she was sorry i was upset,but she wanted 2 be up front with me. blah
I feel she thinks im going 2 b still chattin 2 her like nothing has happened and kiss her ass as usual. Y bother? Its not like im going 2b dropping her panties 2 nite.Ive really began 2c a new side 2 her which i dont like. I think shes used 2 getting things her way with men. She is a friend,but i cant go back 2 that again

guys how do u get out of this LJBF hell
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ok ****y on funy and i know its sounds weird but when u gona hang out with her flirt with other girls make her jelous make her know what u lost and then infront of her tell other girls that she is just a friend. Play her game on ur own side trust me she will eat it up!
 
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She has made her decision. Move on.

You were doing well by just ignoring her - then you just fell right back into to the friendzone by trying to discuss your lack of relationship. Stop having these stupid discussions with her.
 
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