"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl is always with her gay friend.

Alicanto

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I'm doing a course and there are lots of cute girls there (between 18 and 22 years old).
But 1 of them got me interested right away (after a 10minute conversation).

The problem is:
It looks like she's been avoiding me.
Which is really awkward, since she even told me she would love to go train (Parkour/Running) with me sometime.
I do Parkour and she runs, btw.

The second problem is:
She ALWAYS is with her gay (guy) friend. That drives me crazy!!
I even think he told her he didn't like me or something and that's why she would be avoiding me. (I didn't offend him or anything. I just didn't give him attention)

I can certainly hit on other chicks, but I'd like to try everything with this one first.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Who Dares Win

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So you pissed off a guy who think like a chics which add the jealousy of guys to jealousy of girls? :crackup:

It could be the case after all chicks think according to what they are told from those they consider "smart".

First of all you have to find out whats going on and since its a class you attend often you have to do it discreetly, just wait untill she is alone without her pink bodyguard and talk to her.

It can be that pinky is afraid to lose his friend attention to you or she simply lost interest/didnt have any to begin with.

Anyway as a general rule disregard what girls say and just consider their actions, she said she wants to do X with you yet avoids you, I see something wrong in here.
 

VladPatton

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Ƒuck that fruit stripe guy, and just ask her to parkour one day right in front of him.
 

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Always befriend the gay friend to the girl. He's one of her filters and if you ignore him, he'll try to talk her out of you and she'll listen.

Also, gay guys recognize game. The tightest game is invisible and if your game is not tight, he'll probably tell her you are gaming her (if not in those words).

Might be a lost cause, but definitely try to hit her up, if you still want to, when he's not around. If he's there, he'll probably mock you, change the subject, ****block, and so on.

You are going to have to get her to like you outside of his influence. She'll need a reason to not listen to him and for that to happen you will have to CHARM her good. Funny, tease, joke, get her to giggle and blush, do something fun, have sparkling conversational skills, and so on.
 

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Awesome answers, thanks.
But today I've completely lost interest on her.
I noticed how she treats people and that turned me off.

She fu***** told the maintenance guy to hurry up cleaning the floor so she could pass.
That pissed me off and I lost interest on her LOL

Anyways, I'm gonna hit on other girls.

There's a cute one with a very chill/laid-back style, like this girl in the picture:
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I like her style ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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