"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl is always with her gay friend.

Alicanto

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I'm doing a course and there are lots of cute girls there (between 18 and 22 years old).
But 1 of them got me interested right away (after a 10minute conversation).

The problem is:
It looks like she's been avoiding me.
Which is really awkward, since she even told me she would love to go train (Parkour/Running) with me sometime.
I do Parkour and she runs, btw.

The second problem is:
She ALWAYS is with her gay (guy) friend. That drives me crazy!!
I even think he told her he didn't like me or something and that's why she would be avoiding me. (I didn't offend him or anything. I just didn't give him attention)

I can certainly hit on other chicks, but I'd like to try everything with this one first.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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So you pissed off a guy who think like a chics which add the jealousy of guys to jealousy of girls? :crackup:

It could be the case after all chicks think according to what they are told from those they consider "smart".

First of all you have to find out whats going on and since its a class you attend often you have to do it discreetly, just wait untill she is alone without her pink bodyguard and talk to her.

It can be that pinky is afraid to lose his friend attention to you or she simply lost interest/didnt have any to begin with.

Anyway as a general rule disregard what girls say and just consider their actions, she said she wants to do X with you yet avoids you, I see something wrong in here.
 

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Ƒuck that fruit stripe guy, and just ask her to parkour one day right in front of him.
 

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Always befriend the gay friend to the girl. He's one of her filters and if you ignore him, he'll try to talk her out of you and she'll listen.

Also, gay guys recognize game. The tightest game is invisible and if your game is not tight, he'll probably tell her you are gaming her (if not in those words).

Might be a lost cause, but definitely try to hit her up, if you still want to, when he's not around. If he's there, he'll probably mock you, change the subject, ****block, and so on.

You are going to have to get her to like you outside of his influence. She'll need a reason to not listen to him and for that to happen you will have to CHARM her good. Funny, tease, joke, get her to giggle and blush, do something fun, have sparkling conversational skills, and so on.
 

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Awesome answers, thanks.
But today I've completely lost interest on her.
I noticed how she treats people and that turned me off.

She fu***** told the maintenance guy to hurry up cleaning the floor so she could pass.
That pissed me off and I lost interest on her LOL

Anyways, I'm gonna hit on other girls.

There's a cute one with a very chill/laid-back style, like this girl in the picture:
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I like her style ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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