"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girl invited me to come out w/her this weekend. Should I go?

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There's this girl that has been asking me to come out and party with her and her friends. This is probably the third time she asked. The problem is that I have only a few friends, which means virtually no social proof. On top of this the friends that I do have can't do anything the night that her and her friends are going out. This means it would basically be all of them, and just me with absolutely no social backing. Now, I'm pretty awkward as it is, and I think I'd have trouble just coming into their group and socializing when they already have their own little thing going. So, what should I do? I don't want to be the odd man out and end up just standing there by myself nursing a beer the whole party. I feel like that would hurt me more than it would help. Is it a risk worth taking?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Good gosh man, she's going to introduce you to her friends so, BE FRIENDLY WITH THEM, HAVE A GOOD TIME! She'll be more impressed with how you interact with her friends than watching you hang out with people you already know.
 
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