"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl initiate texts to keep orbiters. And rationalize it as being friends? Or subconsciously to keep backup provider for when they hit the wall?

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So last night a plate was bitching about meeting some guy her friends want to set her up. She avoided him for multiple months, relented and finally met him. She showed me messages of her drafting a nice rejection message with her gfs.

Guy doesn't get that she isnt very interested and still messages her. Now what confuses me about all this is that she initiates a text or two to him and continues conversations.

If she finds wanted to reject him, why does she value his attention.

I was this guy earlier. And I was lead on by a chick like this. It's interesting being on the other side.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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