Girl initiate texts to keep orbiters. And rationalize it as being friends? Or subconsciously to keep backup provider for when they hit the wall?

[isasda66]

So last night a plate was bitching about meeting some guy her friends want to set her up. She avoided him for multiple months, relented and finally met him. She showed me messages of her drafting a nice rejection message with her gfs.

Guy doesn't get that she isnt very interested and still messages her. Now what confuses me about all this is that she initiates a text or two to him and continues conversations.

If she finds wanted to reject him, why does she value his attention.

I was this guy earlier. And I was lead on by a chick like this. It's interesting being on the other side.

 

[synecdoche]

Girls just love attention, they will string orbiters along for the free validation they get from them.