"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl in my complex told me "to come by whenever"

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I went by the day she told me this ( I also got herphone number, suggesting that her Apt. # was not good enough) and she stood by the door and we talked for 5-10 minutes. I cut it off. She didn't let me in because she just moved in and "her apt. was too messy."

I'd like to see what's up with her again. Should I just go without calling? or should I call first? Also what's the latest time I go without calling?

Edit: Note that the talk where I got her phone and apt. number was no friends talk. On the other hand, I have had at least one other girl tell me "to come by whenever" but I interputed just in a friendly way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Since you don't know this girl so well, I think you're better to call her before you visit.
Unless you want to catch her half naked fresh out of the shower :D or something.
 
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I don't know yet, but I just went by there and no one answered.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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