"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Girl in my complex told me "to come by whenever"

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I went by the day she told me this ( I also got herphone number, suggesting that her Apt. # was not good enough) and she stood by the door and we talked for 5-10 minutes. I cut it off. She didn't let me in because she just moved in and "her apt. was too messy."

I'd like to see what's up with her again. Should I just go without calling? or should I call first? Also what's the latest time I go without calling?

Edit: Note that the talk where I got her phone and apt. number was no friends talk. On the other hand, I have had at least one other girl tell me "to come by whenever" but I interputed just in a friendly way.
 

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Since you don't know this girl so well, I think you're better to call her before you visit.
Unless you want to catch her half naked fresh out of the shower :D or something.
 
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I don't know yet, but I just went by there and no one answered.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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