"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl in my complex told me "to come by whenever"

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I went by the day she told me this ( I also got herphone number, suggesting that her Apt. # was not good enough) and she stood by the door and we talked for 5-10 minutes. I cut it off. She didn't let me in because she just moved in and "her apt. was too messy."

I'd like to see what's up with her again. Should I just go without calling? or should I call first? Also what's the latest time I go without calling?

Edit: Note that the talk where I got her phone and apt. number was no friends talk. On the other hand, I have had at least one other girl tell me "to come by whenever" but I interputed just in a friendly way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Since you don't know this girl so well, I think you're better to call her before you visit.
Unless you want to catch her half naked fresh out of the shower :D or something.
 
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I don't know yet, but I just went by there and no one answered.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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