theres this one girl i always see at lunch and in the halls and im in track and shes in girls track who is amazingly hot. we always see each other and know each other by face but shes a soph and im a senior. how should i go up to her and get her number without her thinking im a weirdo? cause we have no freinds in common
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yeah but what would be a good line to go up to her since we are 2 years apart and have no friends in common. its weird cause i think she knows who i am but shes really hot . what could i say to make me not seem like a stalker. cause im sick of not being able to approach. like i feel like the whole world is watching me and i feel horrible afterwards not doing it
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Do you like her only because she's "hot"? Thats your first problem. You shouldnt like a girl based on her looks. What if she's a total bimbo? or you share no interest? You already said you dont have any of the same friends, and you're worried about the age difference, so dont even bother asking her out. You already blew it.
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i really hope you arent serious with that last post. I'm gonna hold my tongue on this one.
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Your goal as a Don Juan is to live life the it's absolute fullest and enjoy everything you do. A Don Juan does what he wants, when he wants. And to top it off, if he's a good Don Juan, he gets it.Originally posted by adam22
lol what are u trying to say? the goal is to meet and get with ugly girls? pretty much id just want her for a prom date and if i like her to go out
You should not just concentrate on one girl at a time. If you wanna hang out with this girl, that's cool, but don't obsess. Just one day when she's walking alone, walk up next to her and start a convo. Then you get the number close and a date for Friday night. If she says no, who gives a ****!? It's all about you, and your good time and it's her loss.
Get it?
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it is possible to like a girl because she has a good personality, too.
stfu woman..Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
it is possible to like a girl because she has a good personality, too.
adam.. dont listen to what luvmyarmyman had said... she's a woman.. don't take advice for women from women or you'll be screwed.. she's turning you into an AFC.
and yes.. bein a DJ is to enjoy life.. have as much fun as possible.. and maximize ur chances with girls.. so just flirt with as many girls as possible.. and dont worry if u dont know her yet.. jus talk to her and have fun with it.. who cares if she has a *****y personality? u wont know without gettin to know her.. so likin her for bein hot is not a stupid reason at all. for all u kno she could be a great girl.
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She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thanks dee. i knew that had to be a woman talking about personalities and stuff. no way in hell do i want a girl just for personality. ive heard shes a cool girl also so what would be a good appraoch for her especially since we are both on track and stuff?
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It looks to me like you are saying that the goal of running track is to meet hot girls.Originally posted by adam22
lol what are u trying to say? the goal is to meet and get with ugly girls? pretty much id just want her for a prom date and if i like her to go out
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OH, haha... my bad. I agree that it's a good icebreaker.
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Hah, I dunno but to me that would be the obvious one. Find out whatever event she does and talk to her about it. I dunno just say something like, "Hey that was a nice jump" "Hi i'm so and so" . Or whatever comes out of your mouth, I'm not really a linguist.Originally posted by adam22
hell no i love track and have been doing it since freshman year. i do it cause i love it. but im saying wouldnt it be good to bring up since we are both in it?
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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haha i like your screen name
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You're both in track?
Next time you're in the halls, just say hey, and when she responds, ask her if she's in track. This is a stupid, ridiculous question just to get you two to say at least something to each other. If you can't think of anything else to say at that point, bail out by saying you're late for class, but you'll catch her at practice.
It's not that hard, man. If you consider that in 4 years, you won't remember anyone from highschool and they won't remember you, I can't see what's holding you back.
Next time you're in the halls, just say hey, and when she responds, ask her if she's in track. This is a stupid, ridiculous question just to get you two to say at least something to each other. If you can't think of anything else to say at that point, bail out by saying you're late for class, but you'll catch her at practice.
It's not that hard, man. If you consider that in 4 years, you won't remember anyone from highschool and they won't remember you, I can't see what's holding you back.
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u could wait untill u have a meet. and then before she is about to race/jump/throw u could walk by her somewhere and just say good luck. or after she is done with one of her events u could say good job and give her a high five or a slap on the shoulder. If u do this one or two times and then go up and talk to her at practice it would make the situation seem a lot less awkward.
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Well, i've in this situation before (somewhat, it was tennis instead of track) It's easy, just walk up to her and talk to her about how she ran/will run. Talk to her about school. Hel! theirs an endless amount of things you could talk about. Use your wit, and that pile of slush we like to call a brain, you'll figure something out.
Remember: Just talk to her!....Honestly what's stopping you!?
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