"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So i'm at this nightclub on Saturday. A girl who tells me she is a model (and she was hot enough for it to be true) comes onto me. Hard.

For reasons I won't go into I had to leave early so I got her number. Anyway I made the mistake yesterday of texting rather than calling her. No response and let's face it after 24 hours there's not much chance of there being one in the future.

Question - is it even worth calling up? I assume all phones receive text messages so she must have got it. I don't want to look like some crazed stalker but as I didn't actually talk to her I don't necessarily want to leave things if there's a chance she didn't get it, deleted it by accident, etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Over anaylzing the situation...

When you're in a club girls are getting put out of character do to their state being pumped. When they leave they go back to their mundane lives and they will forget about you. You're best bet is to keep calling and calling until you get her on the phone, then start attracting her all over again on the phone.

Qualification can help lower flaking alot.
 
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I called her.

She was nice on the phone, I kept it brief and tried to set up a date for the coming weekend. She said, 'I'm kind of busy this weekend. Maybe next weekend?'.

Don't know if I can be bothered pursuing. This girl obviously liked me well enough in the club... can't really tell if this is a brush off or not.
 
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Miles28 said:
I called her.

She was nice on the phone, I kept it brief and tried to set up a date for the coming weekend. She said, 'I'm kind of busy this weekend. Maybe next weekend?'.
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Strike 1, but she did "kind of" counter-offer with the "maybe next weekend". Giver her 1 or maybe 2 more chances, then NEXT her. I'll give a woman 2 or 3 strikes, 3 if I really want to fvck her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thanks, that sounds like good advice. I'll call her up next week and if i'm confronted with another excuse then i'll call it a day!
 
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Miles28 said:
So i'm at this nightclub on Saturday. A girl who tells me she is a model (and she was hot enough for it to be true) comes onto me. Hard.

For reasons I won't go into I had to leave early so I got her number. Anyway I made the mistake yesterday of texting rather than calling her. No response and let's face it after 24 hours there's not much chance of there being one in the future.

Question - is it even worth calling up? I assume all phones receive text messages so she must have got it. I don't want to look like some crazed stalker but as I didn't actually talk to her I don't necessarily want to leave things if there's a chance she didn't get it, deleted it by accident, etc.
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Call her, bust her for being shy. Or nervous. Or playing hard to get.
 
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