"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So i'm at this nightclub on Saturday. A girl who tells me she is a model (and she was hot enough for it to be true) comes onto me. Hard.

For reasons I won't go into I had to leave early so I got her number. Anyway I made the mistake yesterday of texting rather than calling her. No response and let's face it after 24 hours there's not much chance of there being one in the future.

Question - is it even worth calling up? I assume all phones receive text messages so she must have got it. I don't want to look like some crazed stalker but as I didn't actually talk to her I don't necessarily want to leave things if there's a chance she didn't get it, deleted it by accident, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Over anaylzing the situation...

When you're in a club girls are getting put out of character do to their state being pumped. When they leave they go back to their mundane lives and they will forget about you. You're best bet is to keep calling and calling until you get her on the phone, then start attracting her all over again on the phone.

Qualification can help lower flaking alot.
 
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I called her.

She was nice on the phone, I kept it brief and tried to set up a date for the coming weekend. She said, 'I'm kind of busy this weekend. Maybe next weekend?'.

Don't know if I can be bothered pursuing. This girl obviously liked me well enough in the club... can't really tell if this is a brush off or not.
 
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Miles28 said:
I called her.

She was nice on the phone, I kept it brief and tried to set up a date for the coming weekend. She said, 'I'm kind of busy this weekend. Maybe next weekend?'.
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Strike 1, but she did "kind of" counter-offer with the "maybe next weekend". Giver her 1 or maybe 2 more chances, then NEXT her. I'll give a woman 2 or 3 strikes, 3 if I really want to fvck her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks, that sounds like good advice. I'll call her up next week and if i'm confronted with another excuse then i'll call it a day!
 
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Miles28 said:
So i'm at this nightclub on Saturday. A girl who tells me she is a model (and she was hot enough for it to be true) comes onto me. Hard.

For reasons I won't go into I had to leave early so I got her number. Anyway I made the mistake yesterday of texting rather than calling her. No response and let's face it after 24 hours there's not much chance of there being one in the future.

Question - is it even worth calling up? I assume all phones receive text messages so she must have got it. I don't want to look like some crazed stalker but as I didn't actually talk to her I don't necessarily want to leave things if there's a chance she didn't get it, deleted it by accident, etc.
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Call her, bust her for being shy. Or nervous. Or playing hard to get.
 
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