"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok There is this girl in class that wants me. It's only been 4 classes but it's painfully obvious. She was my target to begin with and frankly I haven't even talked to her yet. I've been able to sttract girls just with body language. I was pretty sure by the second class so I wanted to test out just how hot she thinks I am. So I told a very stupid joke and she was the only one who laughed. SO yea its obvious. Now I have this class with her until May. Should I start throwing some game her way now or wait? You all know that if I wait she won't think I'm interested and move on.

BTW its community college
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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j0n024

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No dont listen to him dude...wait till the last day of school and then just force everything it's a better idea.
 

Evolution

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I say you should spit game asap. I seen guys at my community college pull numbers during class, its unbelievable.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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meitenesrigas

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I suppose she is probably around 22? At such an advanced age I would be looking for husband material if I were her. The real world is cruel to most. The best a girl can do is to get married before life brings her down with it.
 

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19? MMM, I guess she still has a few years before reality starts hitting her in the face. This isn't going to become one of those posts where you tell us that she strips...is it?

Personally, I think you should always aim at those in a lower societal group. Someone in your same class is a lot more difficult to persuade over to your side than someone that is already enamored with you as a person. Do you have anything or do anything that makes you better than the other students in your class?

Remember, ignore all the DJ b.s. about sticking out. The "furry hat syndrome" stems from guys who have nothing going for them. They lack money, education, culture, lifestyle, etc. So they have to stick out in the lamest and dumbest way they know - dress. Don't be one of those dweebs.

And for those who say "just go for it, dude". Please! Life isn't that easy for most. Getting the nerve to strike first is something that few ever master. That is why it helps to be superior to her in the first place. If you are superior to her you will have a lot less fear than if you are her equal.
 

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Hey guys ya gotta stop treating me like an AFC. I know how to throw a perfect game I've done it many times. It's just really early into the semester. I wanted to know if its a good idea to do in a class I'll be in with her for the next few months. Trust me dude I got alot going for me than the other guys. Its a Relationship class. Pre-selcection, Social Proof, and DHV comes up in the discussion. Like how I said all the girls I've ever been with have brought up marriage.
 

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So then why are you asking for advice? WFT! Just grab your balls and say you have more **** going for you then most guys and start talking to her why should a "DJ" care if there is trouble if you fvck up, plus you said you can throw "Perfect" game so why wouldnt it work? Just grab your balls and do it scrub.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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