"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl in class

MushroomGod

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Ok There is this girl in class that wants me. It's only been 4 classes but it's painfully obvious. She was my target to begin with and frankly I haven't even talked to her yet. I've been able to sttract girls just with body language. I was pretty sure by the second class so I wanted to test out just how hot she thinks I am. So I told a very stupid joke and she was the only one who laughed. SO yea its obvious. Now I have this class with her until May. Should I start throwing some game her way now or wait? You all know that if I wait she won't think I'm interested and move on.

BTW its community college
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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j0n024

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No dont listen to him dude...wait till the last day of school and then just force everything it's a better idea.
 

Evolution

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I say you should spit game asap. I seen guys at my community college pull numbers during class, its unbelievable.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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meitenesrigas

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I suppose she is probably around 22? At such an advanced age I would be looking for husband material if I were her. The real world is cruel to most. The best a girl can do is to get married before life brings her down with it.
 

meitenesrigas

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19? MMM, I guess she still has a few years before reality starts hitting her in the face. This isn't going to become one of those posts where you tell us that she strips...is it?

Personally, I think you should always aim at those in a lower societal group. Someone in your same class is a lot more difficult to persuade over to your side than someone that is already enamored with you as a person. Do you have anything or do anything that makes you better than the other students in your class?

Remember, ignore all the DJ b.s. about sticking out. The "furry hat syndrome" stems from guys who have nothing going for them. They lack money, education, culture, lifestyle, etc. So they have to stick out in the lamest and dumbest way they know - dress. Don't be one of those dweebs.

And for those who say "just go for it, dude". Please! Life isn't that easy for most. Getting the nerve to strike first is something that few ever master. That is why it helps to be superior to her in the first place. If you are superior to her you will have a lot less fear than if you are her equal.
 

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Hey guys ya gotta stop treating me like an AFC. I know how to throw a perfect game I've done it many times. It's just really early into the semester. I wanted to know if its a good idea to do in a class I'll be in with her for the next few months. Trust me dude I got alot going for me than the other guys. Its a Relationship class. Pre-selcection, Social Proof, and DHV comes up in the discussion. Like how I said all the girls I've ever been with have brought up marriage.
 

j0n024

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So then why are you asking for advice? WFT! Just grab your balls and say you have more **** going for you then most guys and start talking to her why should a "DJ" care if there is trouble if you fvck up, plus you said you can throw "Perfect" game so why wouldnt it work? Just grab your balls and do it scrub.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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