"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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girl in class? wtf...

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my third post. I'm new here and decided to look into this site to gain a little more knowledge about the game. just further my studies and self improvement. I am not looking to date really because i already have a gf whom i love very much. but if it ends i do want some options.

however, i'm kind of confused about this situation. there is this HB in my eng class who is pretty cute. i decided to approach her one day when i built up the courage lol. but anyway we hit it off great. we talked, we laughed, we even eat together. he have a lot in common and i thought she'd make a great friend.

i thought we were cool. so the next day i talk to her. almost no convo, she didnt even say hi. she hugged me after class though because she misinterpreted my message when i stood in from of her.

next day we talked again. we laughed and chatted, the she rushed off after class.

next day she doesn't even say anything


so my thing is, i thought we were cool, but she seems to ignore me and not even care. what do you guys think about this? should i try to befriend her more or just leave her alone?

keep in mind our class is monday morning at 8:00 so no one is really very social.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Omen

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She's probably testing you, and truth be told, if you love your current gf, i'd not throw any more mixed signals out there. You already got a hug, and ate with her. She's testing the waters. You better tell her you only want to be friends, unless you want more. That's not for me to say what you want.
 

marinetti

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you're friended, sorry, escalation needs to happen quicker than what you did.
 
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