"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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girl in class? wtf...

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Don Juan
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my third post. I'm new here and decided to look into this site to gain a little more knowledge about the game. just further my studies and self improvement. I am not looking to date really because i already have a gf whom i love very much. but if it ends i do want some options.

however, i'm kind of confused about this situation. there is this HB in my eng class who is pretty cute. i decided to approach her one day when i built up the courage lol. but anyway we hit it off great. we talked, we laughed, we even eat together. he have a lot in common and i thought she'd make a great friend.

i thought we were cool. so the next day i talk to her. almost no convo, she didnt even say hi. she hugged me after class though because she misinterpreted my message when i stood in from of her.

next day we talked again. we laughed and chatted, the she rushed off after class.

next day she doesn't even say anything


so my thing is, i thought we were cool, but she seems to ignore me and not even care. what do you guys think about this? should i try to befriend her more or just leave her alone?

keep in mind our class is monday morning at 8:00 so no one is really very social.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Omen

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She's probably testing you, and truth be told, if you love your current gf, i'd not throw any more mixed signals out there. You already got a hug, and ate with her. She's testing the waters. You better tell her you only want to be friends, unless you want more. That's not for me to say what you want.
 

marinetti

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you're friended, sorry, escalation needs to happen quicker than what you did.
 
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