"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl in class: need advice

silenthill

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Ok, so there's this girl that sits in front of me in my psyc class. She seems really shy and reserved. We had a chance to do a presentation for extra credit and she was one of the only ones to decline (I'm guessing because she would be too nervous). So today before class started I started talking to her. Seemed to go ok I think. We talked for about 5 minutes, she asked me questions too so it wasn't at all one sided. When class got out I asked her if she had a class next. She said not untill one. I asked her what her name was, then said mine.

The class had gotten out early so I had 45 min to spare. I asked her if she wanted to go grab a cup of coffee. She said she doesn't drink coffee and she has to go to her car to get something. I said oh ok cool, well I'll see you next class and she said bye. I thought it would be too weird if I followed her to her car.

She acted really nervous when I was talking to her after class. I don't know if it was because she was or she just didn't want to talk to me. I'm going to try again because I really don't care and if anything it's just a social experiment. Which way should I go from here? Ask for her number at the end of the next class?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Hikapo

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Just start talking to her after class. Don't even mention about if she has time after class. Ask her questions about herself and I am sure she will open up to you.
 
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