"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl in class: need advice

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silenthill

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Ok, so there's this girl that sits in front of me in my psyc class. She seems really shy and reserved. We had a chance to do a presentation for extra credit and she was one of the only ones to decline (I'm guessing because she would be too nervous). So today before class started I started talking to her. Seemed to go ok I think. We talked for about 5 minutes, she asked me questions too so it wasn't at all one sided. When class got out I asked her if she had a class next. She said not untill one. I asked her what her name was, then said mine.

The class had gotten out early so I had 45 min to spare. I asked her if she wanted to go grab a cup of coffee. She said she doesn't drink coffee and she has to go to her car to get something. I said oh ok cool, well I'll see you next class and she said bye. I thought it would be too weird if I followed her to her car.

She acted really nervous when I was talking to her after class. I don't know if it was because she was or she just didn't want to talk to me. I'm going to try again because I really don't care and if anything it's just a social experiment. Which way should I go from here? Ask for her number at the end of the next class?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just start talking to her after class. Don't even mention about if she has time after class. Ask her questions about herself and I am sure she will open up to you.
 
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