"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl I'm talking to just admitted she used to work as. Dominatrix

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We have plans to get together tonight.

She's a very worldy/experienced girl. Has done extensive traveling/worked various jobs. More than I've done in my life.

Now she just admitted she worked as a dominatrix basically guys would pay for her to humiliate/get their asses whipped by her. Says she needed extra money at the time... She sent me a link to her page which is still up. She doesn't do that for work anymore it was a few years back and doesn't even live in NYC anymore.

My question, should I stay clear is this a huge red flag/will their most likely be problems in the future based off her lifestyle etc?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oh you just reminded me of this one time I went on a date with a girl............during the date she wouldn't tell me what she did for a living. After much persistence she finally admitted she was a DOMINATRIX. I pretty much carried the conversation the entire date. I could barely get this girl to open up no matter what I did. This girl was in the military and into weapons. Good looking and killer body. Very much into working out. She told me she would work out with a hangover. This biatch was tough, yet still sexy.

Finally after about an hour I had enough. I said...."well I pretty much feel like I'm on a date by myself, and you are just a tough nut to crack so I'll be leaving." A few hours later I get a text with her apologizing and wanted to go out again. I told her no thanks and she exploded. She sent me random hate texts for the next 3weeks.
 

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She could have just been playacting for the $ but still, why get involved with someone from the seedy underside of life consisting of escorts and tricks.....there are better women out there.
 

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She's a very worldy/experienced girl. Has done extensive traveling/worked various jobs. More than I've done in my life.
Worldly and Experienced are not good traits for women, they are traits for strong, independent MEN. These women are almost always from couchsurfing and they are usually HUGE *****S. Do you know what goes on at a Hostel? They might as well be called d1rty sex hotels because the only fvcking going on is between As2holes and travelling Warpigs.

Worldly... where have I heard that word before.....OH YEAH

HERE: http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMjcxMjI3MTY0.html

BTW PS3 sucks. Nintendo forever!

BARF, aim to get a girl who is a wide-eyed virgin... what the hell is wrong with you son? Peppy, Cute as a button and Fun... think Nintendo not PS3. Lord knows people have mashed her buttons before rage quitting.
 

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I wouldn't trust a girl who was a dominatrix. She is used to men being submissive to her, which she would probably expect in her "real" relationships..... if there ever was such a thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just got back from a very quick meet up (about 20 min) and man I was not interested at the end.

She was very obnoxious; talked loud, made too many jokes, kept talking about her experiences.

On top of it all she rejected any advances I tried physically then later texted to ask why I didn't go for "my big move" and then claimed she was shy...

Yikes!
 

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I'm curious if women who are dominatrixes still want dominant men (women who are really into it, not just being paid as a job). I suspect they do, and would be able to switch roles. Many of them are probably bisexual.
 
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