"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl I'm talking to just admitted she used to work as. Dominatrix

tryst type

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We have plans to get together tonight.

She's a very worldy/experienced girl. Has done extensive traveling/worked various jobs. More than I've done in my life.

Now she just admitted she worked as a dominatrix basically guys would pay for her to humiliate/get their asses whipped by her. Says she needed extra money at the time... She sent me a link to her page which is still up. She doesn't do that for work anymore it was a few years back and doesn't even live in NYC anymore.

My question, should I stay clear is this a huge red flag/will their most likely be problems in the future based off her lifestyle etc?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Duke

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Oh you just reminded me of this one time I went on a date with a girl............during the date she wouldn't tell me what she did for a living. After much persistence she finally admitted she was a DOMINATRIX. I pretty much carried the conversation the entire date. I could barely get this girl to open up no matter what I did. This girl was in the military and into weapons. Good looking and killer body. Very much into working out. She told me she would work out with a hangover. This biatch was tough, yet still sexy.

Finally after about an hour I had enough. I said...."well I pretty much feel like I'm on a date by myself, and you are just a tough nut to crack so I'll be leaving." A few hours later I get a text with her apologizing and wanted to go out again. I told her no thanks and she exploded. She sent me random hate texts for the next 3weeks.
 

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She could have just been playacting for the $ but still, why get involved with someone from the seedy underside of life consisting of escorts and tricks.....there are better women out there.
 

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She's a very worldy/experienced girl. Has done extensive traveling/worked various jobs. More than I've done in my life.
Worldly and Experienced are not good traits for women, they are traits for strong, independent MEN. These women are almost always from couchsurfing and they are usually HUGE *****S. Do you know what goes on at a Hostel? They might as well be called d1rty sex hotels because the only fvcking going on is between As2holes and travelling Warpigs.

Worldly... where have I heard that word before.....OH YEAH

HERE: http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMjcxMjI3MTY0.html

BTW PS3 sucks. Nintendo forever!

BARF, aim to get a girl who is a wide-eyed virgin... what the hell is wrong with you son? Peppy, Cute as a button and Fun... think Nintendo not PS3. Lord knows people have mashed her buttons before rage quitting.
 

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I wouldn't trust a girl who was a dominatrix. She is used to men being submissive to her, which she would probably expect in her "real" relationships..... if there ever was such a thing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just got back from a very quick meet up (about 20 min) and man I was not interested at the end.

She was very obnoxious; talked loud, made too many jokes, kept talking about her experiences.

On top of it all she rejected any advances I tried physically then later texted to ask why I didn't go for "my big move" and then claimed she was shy...

Yikes!
 

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I'm curious if women who are dominatrixes still want dominant men (women who are really into it, not just being paid as a job). I suspect they do, and would be able to switch roles. Many of them are probably bisexual.
 
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