"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girl im flirting with sees me with another girl.

ToughGuy

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I agree with you guys.
I have also experience this. There is a gal (hot one), though she always played hard to get. Doesn't look to my ways.
But i have noticed change in her behaviour whenever i flirt with the other gals, and make them laugh, or ask them for tea.

becoz this hot gal was playing hard ball i never asked her for coffee.
But now her behaviour seems better.

I would like more guys giving their experience to strengthen this idea.

More over how can we create more n more situation of competition, to beat them in their own game you BIG BOYS.

Yours
Tuffy
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ Alejandro

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what im doing right now is to "supplement" the situation.

what i mean is that im right where she could easily see me without trying to hard.

and then my best girls would walk by and id say hi, give them hugs and basically have a good time.

i was eating at this restaurant the other night and then there was a classmate of hers. she wasnt really quite subtle about it but i could see her in the corner of my eye, she was pointing to me and her whole family was staring at me. and then she goes, "that's DJA.. he's blah blah blah.."

and then her mom goes, "yeah.. even I find blah blah blah cute." which im sure wasnt me though. just a thought that this means they've been talking about me. any attention is good.
 

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to add, i saw her today while i was walking around eating some finger food and then she went out of her room as if crying and throwing what looked like a tantrum.

i went closer to throw the food into the garbage can but then when i got close to about 10 feet, she turned around and went inside.

i didnt approach cuz i didnt want to get associated with so negative of emotions i perceived.
 
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