"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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girl im flirting with sees me with another girl.

ToughGuy

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I agree with you guys.
I have also experience this. There is a gal (hot one), though she always played hard to get. Doesn't look to my ways.
But i have noticed change in her behaviour whenever i flirt with the other gals, and make them laugh, or ask them for tea.

becoz this hot gal was playing hard ball i never asked her for coffee.
But now her behaviour seems better.

I would like more guys giving their experience to strengthen this idea.

More over how can we create more n more situation of competition, to beat them in their own game you BIG BOYS.

Yours
Tuffy
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ Alejandro

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what im doing right now is to "supplement" the situation.

what i mean is that im right where she could easily see me without trying to hard.

and then my best girls would walk by and id say hi, give them hugs and basically have a good time.

i was eating at this restaurant the other night and then there was a classmate of hers. she wasnt really quite subtle about it but i could see her in the corner of my eye, she was pointing to me and her whole family was staring at me. and then she goes, "that's DJA.. he's blah blah blah.."

and then her mom goes, "yeah.. even I find blah blah blah cute." which im sure wasnt me though. just a thought that this means they've been talking about me. any attention is good.
 

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to add, i saw her today while i was walking around eating some finger food and then she went out of her room as if crying and throwing what looked like a tantrum.

i went closer to throw the food into the garbage can but then when i got close to about 10 feet, she turned around and went inside.

i didnt approach cuz i didnt want to get associated with so negative of emotions i perceived.
 
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