"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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girl im flirting with sees me with another girl.

ToughGuy

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I agree with you guys.
I have also experience this. There is a gal (hot one), though she always played hard to get. Doesn't look to my ways.
But i have noticed change in her behaviour whenever i flirt with the other gals, and make them laugh, or ask them for tea.

becoz this hot gal was playing hard ball i never asked her for coffee.
But now her behaviour seems better.

I would like more guys giving their experience to strengthen this idea.

More over how can we create more n more situation of competition, to beat them in their own game you BIG BOYS.

Yours
Tuffy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ Alejandro

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what im doing right now is to "supplement" the situation.

what i mean is that im right where she could easily see me without trying to hard.

and then my best girls would walk by and id say hi, give them hugs and basically have a good time.

i was eating at this restaurant the other night and then there was a classmate of hers. she wasnt really quite subtle about it but i could see her in the corner of my eye, she was pointing to me and her whole family was staring at me. and then she goes, "that's DJA.. he's blah blah blah.."

and then her mom goes, "yeah.. even I find blah blah blah cute." which im sure wasnt me though. just a thought that this means they've been talking about me. any attention is good.
 

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to add, i saw her today while i was walking around eating some finger food and then she went out of her room as if crying and throwing what looked like a tantrum.

i went closer to throw the food into the garbage can but then when i got close to about 10 feet, she turned around and went inside.

i didnt approach cuz i didnt want to get associated with so negative of emotions i perceived.
 
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