Alright heres the story we work together in a restaurant on new years eve I ended up making out with her and motor boating her in washroom. Thought nothing of it (her bf at time was at the bar) and days later she comes up to me gives me numebr, I see her alot got tons of action from her, but its been like 3-4wks she is still living with her ex due to him paying for rent , car ,etc . This is kinda annoying for me. Like I mean im getting tons of action from her pretty much whenever I want but she is always txting and ****. What do u guys recommend? Just keep ****in her and nothing else. I kinda like her to but I mean I wont get serious while her ex still lives there. Any suggestions?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Girl Im banging lives with ex
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I am new here, but common sense tells me this girl is just trying to get hers and that's it. She's using him (so she says) just for rent, car, etc, and she's using you (it seems) for sex. Seems fairly obvious to me that this girl is not someone you should be looking for anything serious with. Who knows who shes texting and what she is getting out of them.
If you don't mind it staying at sex, just leave it how it is. Sounds to me that it shouldn't be anything more than that, though.
And of course, this is only based on how the situation sounds from your explanation.
If you don't mind it staying at sex, just leave it how it is. Sounds to me that it shouldn't be anything more than that, though.
And of course, this is only based on how the situation sounds from your explanation.
powpow
Senior Don Juan
this sounds like a win win situation. you get all of the good stuff while this chump is pretty much paying you to pound away at his ex girlfriend.
I can imagine if someone came here saying `should I keep paying for my exgirlfriends rent and car payment while another guy is ****ing her?`
but man, this is so good for you. this girl is a pro. just DO NOT fall in love with her.
I can imagine if someone came here saying `should I keep paying for my exgirlfriends rent and car payment while another guy is ****ing her?`
but man, this is so good for you. this girl is a pro. just DO NOT fall in love with her.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lol ya true eh,,,, the only thing is she dated a dude for 5yrs, then immeadiately dated a dude for 3yrs(the ex) and now im ****in her,,,,, i just dont want her to get too clingy and fall for me,,, i have to get rid of her if i become manager at that restaurant anyways,,, also the other girls at work heard about new years and all want my balls now too lol,,, i really dont have feelings for her I just wanna keep gettin my **** wet so i kind of pretend to be into her, etc
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Classy place you work at.Jdc84 said:lol ya true eh,,,, the only thing is she dated a dude for 5yrs, then immeadiately dated a dude for 3yrs(the ex) and now im ****in her,,,,, i just dont want her to get too clingy and fall for me,,, i have to get rid of her if i become manager at that restaurant anyways,,, also the other girls at work heard about new years and all want my balls now too lol,,, i really dont have feelings for her I just wanna keep gettin my **** wet so i kind of pretend to be into her, etc