Alright heres the story we work together in a restaurant on new years eve I ended up making out with her and motor boating her in washroom. Thought nothing of it (her bf at time was at the bar) and days later she comes up to me gives me numebr, I see her alot got tons of action from her, but its been like 3-4wks she is still living with her ex due to him paying for rent , car ,etc . This is kinda annoying for me. Like I mean im getting tons of action from her pretty much whenever I want but she is always txting and ****. What do u guys recommend? Just keep ****in her and nothing else. I kinda like her to but I mean I wont get serious while her ex still lives there. Any suggestions?
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Girl Im banging lives with ex
- Thread starter Jdc84
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I am new here, but common sense tells me this girl is just trying to get hers and that's it. She's using him (so she says) just for rent, car, etc, and she's using you (it seems) for sex. Seems fairly obvious to me that this girl is not someone you should be looking for anything serious with. Who knows who shes texting and what she is getting out of them.
If you don't mind it staying at sex, just leave it how it is. Sounds to me that it shouldn't be anything more than that, though.
And of course, this is only based on how the situation sounds from your explanation.
If you don't mind it staying at sex, just leave it how it is. Sounds to me that it shouldn't be anything more than that, though.
And of course, this is only based on how the situation sounds from your explanation.
powpow
Senior Don Juan
this sounds like a win win situation. you get all of the good stuff while this chump is pretty much paying you to pound away at his ex girlfriend.
I can imagine if someone came here saying `should I keep paying for my exgirlfriends rent and car payment while another guy is ****ing her?`
but man, this is so good for you. this girl is a pro. just DO NOT fall in love with her.
I can imagine if someone came here saying `should I keep paying for my exgirlfriends rent and car payment while another guy is ****ing her?`
but man, this is so good for you. this girl is a pro. just DO NOT fall in love with her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
lol ya true eh,,,, the only thing is she dated a dude for 5yrs, then immeadiately dated a dude for 3yrs(the ex) and now im ****in her,,,,, i just dont want her to get too clingy and fall for me,,, i have to get rid of her if i become manager at that restaurant anyways,,, also the other girls at work heard about new years and all want my balls now too lol,,, i really dont have feelings for her I just wanna keep gettin my **** wet so i kind of pretend to be into her, etc
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Classy place you work at.Jdc84 said:lol ya true eh,,,, the only thing is she dated a dude for 5yrs, then immeadiately dated a dude for 3yrs(the ex) and now im ****in her,,,,, i just dont want her to get too clingy and fall for me,,, i have to get rid of her if i become manager at that restaurant anyways,,, also the other girls at work heard about new years and all want my balls now too lol,,, i really dont have feelings for her I just wanna keep gettin my **** wet so i kind of pretend to be into her, etc