Alright heres the story we work together in a restaurant on new years eve I ended up making out with her and motor boating her in washroom. Thought nothing of it (her bf at time was at the bar) and days later she comes up to me gives me numebr, I see her alot got tons of action from her, but its been like 3-4wks she is still living with her ex due to him paying for rent , car ,etc . This is kinda annoying for me. Like I mean im getting tons of action from her pretty much whenever I want but she is always txting and ****. What do u guys recommend? Just keep ****in her and nothing else. I kinda like her to but I mean I wont get serious while her ex still lives there. Any suggestions?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Girl Im banging lives with ex
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I am new here, but common sense tells me this girl is just trying to get hers and that's it. She's using him (so she says) just for rent, car, etc, and she's using you (it seems) for sex. Seems fairly obvious to me that this girl is not someone you should be looking for anything serious with. Who knows who shes texting and what she is getting out of them.
If you don't mind it staying at sex, just leave it how it is. Sounds to me that it shouldn't be anything more than that, though.
And of course, this is only based on how the situation sounds from your explanation.
If you don't mind it staying at sex, just leave it how it is. Sounds to me that it shouldn't be anything more than that, though.
And of course, this is only based on how the situation sounds from your explanation.
powpow
Senior Don Juan
this sounds like a win win situation. you get all of the good stuff while this chump is pretty much paying you to pound away at his ex girlfriend.
I can imagine if someone came here saying `should I keep paying for my exgirlfriends rent and car payment while another guy is ****ing her?`
but man, this is so good for you. this girl is a pro. just DO NOT fall in love with her.
I can imagine if someone came here saying `should I keep paying for my exgirlfriends rent and car payment while another guy is ****ing her?`
but man, this is so good for you. this girl is a pro. just DO NOT fall in love with her.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lol ya true eh,,,, the only thing is she dated a dude for 5yrs, then immeadiately dated a dude for 3yrs(the ex) and now im ****in her,,,,, i just dont want her to get too clingy and fall for me,,, i have to get rid of her if i become manager at that restaurant anyways,,, also the other girls at work heard about new years and all want my balls now too lol,,, i really dont have feelings for her I just wanna keep gettin my **** wet so i kind of pretend to be into her, etc
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Classy place you work at.Jdc84 said:lol ya true eh,,,, the only thing is she dated a dude for 5yrs, then immeadiately dated a dude for 3yrs(the ex) and now im ****in her,,,,, i just dont want her to get too clingy and fall for me,,, i have to get rid of her if i become manager at that restaurant anyways,,, also the other girls at work heard about new years and all want my balls now too lol,,, i really dont have feelings for her I just wanna keep gettin my **** wet so i kind of pretend to be into her, etc