I have been playing around with this girl I work with, she asked me to have sex. For whatever reasons I rejected her. Now she has a boyfriend. She started playing around with me today, and said want to me my baby's daddy? I kind of thought it was a joke, but I mostly thought she was serious. I later told a friend, he said it was a joke. I don't believe him, I really don't know. Now, I am interested in having sex with her, what should I do?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Girl I work with?
- Thread starter crossboss
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Silkandsteel
Don Juan
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Weird...
Hitman10000
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She's pulling your strings dude, seriously ignore her.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Tell her you already have 11 of them. Maybe if she wants to be your babySITTER you'll think about it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Why is that?
I am just kind of curious, how do you know that she is lying? Because if she is, you are right I should move on. I probably agree with you guys, she is joking. However, the fact that she is joking, what if she starts playing around with me again, should I reject her?
I am just kind of curious, how do you know that she is lying? Because if she is, you are right I should move on. I probably agree with you guys, she is joking. However, the fact that she is joking, what if she starts playing around with me again, should I reject her?
We know she is lying because a lot of chicks love to mess with guys' heads by leading them on. It's an ego boost for them. Also, the fact that you turned down sex with her before is a big tip-off that she's trying to make up for the hurt to her ego from before.crossboss said:
As for your other question, it doesn't really matter what you do in response to her flirting (I'm assuming that's what you mean by "playing around"), so long as you realize that she's just messing with you, and therefore you shouldn't bother trying to lay her. If, however, you're hell-bent on not letting her think that she's stringing you along anyway, you should just withdraw your attention from her. That doesn't mean "be an ******* to her", since you'll still need to work with her at times, but don't make any effort to interact with her other than for work-related stuff. If she starts flirting again, treat her like you'd treat an ugly chick; don't flirt back.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
say if im ur daddy ill f uck u !
Maybe you are mistaken.
Actually, by playing around I mean constant touching. She touches me a lot, I touch her back. Sometimes she does sexual touches. Also she seems to want to call me gay, is that a method of her seducing me? Because appearentely, other girls have shown sexual interest, and haven't fvcked any of them. So they are confused. I think all of them love me.
Actually, by playing around I mean constant touching. She touches me a lot, I touch her back. Sometimes she does sexual touches. Also she seems to want to call me gay, is that a method of her seducing me? Because appearentely, other girls have shown sexual interest, and haven't fvcked any of them. So they are confused. I think all of them love me.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
She will ignore you as soon as she knows you want her. Why didn't you just sleep with her before?
She might still sleep with you, just wants to be discreet. I doubt it though.
She might still sleep with you, just wants to be discreet. I doubt it though.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well losing my job?
I don't think I will lose my job because I am a valued employee there. So is it worth taking a risk and getting her number to fvck her? I chose not to fvck her in the past, because she didn't respect me.
I don't think I will lose my job because I am a valued employee there. So is it worth taking a risk and getting her number to fvck her? I chose not to fvck her in the past, because she didn't respect me.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
If a woman accuses a man of sexual harassment, man loses. Only in extreme cases will a man ever survive such an accusation. That's life.crossboss said:
If a woman complains to management that a man has made sexual advances toward her, your value as an employee is null. There are a variety of laws that business organizations must enforce, and those include laws pertaining to civil rights and sexual harassment. Your value to the organization is reduced to zero should you ever be the target of a claim of either violation.crossboss said:
Regardless of these consequences, screwing around with any woman in the workplace is a bad idea, but ultimately the above consequences prevail.