I have been playing around with this girl I work with, she asked me to have sex. For whatever reasons I rejected her. Now she has a boyfriend. She started playing around with me today, and said want to me my baby's daddy? I kind of thought it was a joke, but I mostly thought she was serious. I later told a friend, he said it was a joke. I don't believe him, I really don't know. Now, I am interested in having sex with her, what should I do?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Girl I work with?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Silkandsteel
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Weird...
Hitman10000
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She's pulling your strings dude, seriously ignore her.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Tell her you already have 11 of them. Maybe if she wants to be your babySITTER you'll think about it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why is that?
I am just kind of curious, how do you know that she is lying? Because if she is, you are right I should move on. I probably agree with you guys, she is joking. However, the fact that she is joking, what if she starts playing around with me again, should I reject her?
I am just kind of curious, how do you know that she is lying? Because if she is, you are right I should move on. I probably agree with you guys, she is joking. However, the fact that she is joking, what if she starts playing around with me again, should I reject her?
We know she is lying because a lot of chicks love to mess with guys' heads by leading them on. It's an ego boost for them. Also, the fact that you turned down sex with her before is a big tip-off that she's trying to make up for the hurt to her ego from before.crossboss said:
As for your other question, it doesn't really matter what you do in response to her flirting (I'm assuming that's what you mean by "playing around"), so long as you realize that she's just messing with you, and therefore you shouldn't bother trying to lay her. If, however, you're hell-bent on not letting her think that she's stringing you along anyway, you should just withdraw your attention from her. That doesn't mean "be an ******* to her", since you'll still need to work with her at times, but don't make any effort to interact with her other than for work-related stuff. If she starts flirting again, treat her like you'd treat an ugly chick; don't flirt back.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
say if im ur daddy ill f uck u !
Maybe you are mistaken.
Actually, by playing around I mean constant touching. She touches me a lot, I touch her back. Sometimes she does sexual touches. Also she seems to want to call me gay, is that a method of her seducing me? Because appearentely, other girls have shown sexual interest, and haven't fvcked any of them. So they are confused. I think all of them love me.
Actually, by playing around I mean constant touching. She touches me a lot, I touch her back. Sometimes she does sexual touches. Also she seems to want to call me gay, is that a method of her seducing me? Because appearentely, other girls have shown sexual interest, and haven't fvcked any of them. So they are confused. I think all of them love me.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
She will ignore you as soon as she knows you want her. Why didn't you just sleep with her before?
She might still sleep with you, just wants to be discreet. I doubt it though.
She might still sleep with you, just wants to be discreet. I doubt it though.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well losing my job?
I don't think I will lose my job because I am a valued employee there. So is it worth taking a risk and getting her number to fvck her? I chose not to fvck her in the past, because she didn't respect me.
I don't think I will lose my job because I am a valued employee there. So is it worth taking a risk and getting her number to fvck her? I chose not to fvck her in the past, because she didn't respect me.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If a woman accuses a man of sexual harassment, man loses. Only in extreme cases will a man ever survive such an accusation. That's life.crossboss said:
If a woman complains to management that a man has made sexual advances toward her, your value as an employee is null. There are a variety of laws that business organizations must enforce, and those include laws pertaining to civil rights and sexual harassment. Your value to the organization is reduced to zero should you ever be the target of a claim of either violation.crossboss said:
Regardless of these consequences, screwing around with any woman in the workplace is a bad idea, but ultimately the above consequences prevail.